Ohio

Re: 25?
cleveland34 1022 reads
posted
1 / 17

10 girls turned me down due to being under 25. This is annoying

Tobi Telford See my TER Reviews 736 reads
posted
2 / 17

You're going to be hard-pressed to find ladies who will see guys under 30. Don't take it personally. Unfortunately, the disrespectful, cheap, boundary-crossing, too-much-porn-watching guys tend to be younger than 25, and those are the ones responsible for ruining it for the nice guys our age. 9 times out of 10 when a lady has restrictions on who she'll see based on age, race, nationality, height, weight, eye color, number of freckles, etc., it's purely based on prior bad experiences. And we'll do pretty much anything to avoid bad experiences.  

Posted By: cleveland34
10 girls turned me down due to being under 25. This is annoying

cleveland34 760 reads
posted
3 / 17

Yeah that makes sense, it's just frustrating when I am none of those things.

Tobi Telford See my TER Reviews 625 reads
posted
4 / 17

I hear ya. But look on the bright side: you're young enough to get it for free from civvie chicks.  

Posted By: cleveland34
Yeah that makes sense, it's just frustrating when I am none of those things.

iliketofarm 682 reads
posted
5 / 17

Unless your ugly, stinky, obese or some combination thereof, go to a bar, a party, or something and find a hook-up.

cleveland34 640 reads
posted
6 / 17

it's not that easy for me, sadly.

iliketofarm 578 reads
posted
7 / 17

Dude, it isn't easy for most of us.

iliketofarm 632 reads
posted
8 / 17

Right. Because older dudes can't get it for free from civilians. Chicks are ageist.

Tobi Telford See my TER Reviews 601 reads
posted
9 / 17

Do tell. I'm sure I'm not the only one on the Ohio board who'd be happy to offer some advice.  

Posted By: cleveland34
it's not that easy for me, sadly.

Tobi Telford See my TER Reviews 501 reads
posted
10 / 17

Posted By: iliketofarm
Unless your ugly, stinky, obese or some combination thereof, go to a bar, a party, or something and find a hook-up.

Tobi Telford See my TER Reviews 633 reads
posted
11 / 17

Dude, you posted nearly the exact same advice. No need to get snarky.  

Posted By: iliketofarm
Right. Because older dudes can't get it for free from civilians. Chicks are ageist.

TrulyMsMocha See my TER Reviews 635 reads
posted
12 / 17

Uh a lot of younger, athetic, hot guys who hobby do it because they can and even with them being good looking/young/athletic they still find hobbying easier. *shrugs*.

iliketofarm 497 reads
posted
13 / 17
tallslim26 26 Reviews 529 reads
posted
14 / 17

If a woman wants to make decisions on who she sees based on pretty much anything I have no problem with it, and you shouldn't either, she has her preferences and has every right to have them. You may want to rock that but c'mon, if she doesn't want your money then just say "her loss" and move on, this hobby should not make you angry. If the frustration of not being able to see who you want when you want becomes to much you should just give it a break, that is what I did.

10 girls turning you down, maybe it is something else about how you approach them, I have on the occasions I have contacted a provider who specified an older age group still been able to see them, maybe it is just the way I approached them.

But you know what I rarely even bother to contact women with that specification and I will tell you why, and you should consider this as to whether you are "missing" something or if she did you a favor. Now I might be wrong, but I always thought that women who only want to see guys over 40 are women who do not want to see guys in their 30's or younger who are on the average going to last longer and bring it with more energy. Also many times older men are married, some women who may not be a perfect 10 will be secure in knowing the guy will be altogether happy with their appearance seeing as she is probably much better than the wife at home. Guys who are younger on the average probably have higher standards.

As I am one who wants to have a romp every time, a wicked f*ck, I would rather know beforehand that a girl probably wants to keep it at a certain level of intensity. They have that assurance normally when they see guys over 40.

So don't sweat it and move on, if you have been turned down by 10 women then perhaps you should try to go out some place and meet a woman, kinda ridiculous to get turned down over and over by women who you are trying to pay. No offense to you, just something I started doing, I have not had problems with being rejected by age or anything else, but I have had some runs where girls cancel for some BS reason and it just becomes more work and frustration than it is worth, always keep this hobby in its proper prospective and it will not be a pain for you.

Good luck in the future.

Tobi Telford See my TER Reviews 575 reads
posted
15 / 17
lungman 10 Reviews 473 reads
posted
16 / 17

you will find someone.
Having no reviews is not gonna help, but if you give the ladies legitimate info on yourself........someone WILL take a chance on you.
Go to the newbie board and see if you can get more insight on how to proceed.
Good Luck

AngelaAllure See my TER Reviews 479 reads
posted
17 / 17

I will see you. angelaallure.tumblr.com

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