You're going to be hard-pressed to find ladies who will see guys under 30. Don't take it personally. Unfortunately, the disrespectful, cheap, boundary-crossing, too-much-porn-watching guys tend to be younger than 25, and those are the ones responsible for ruining it for the nice guys our age. 9 times out of 10 when a lady has restrictions on who she'll see based on age, race, nationality, height, weight, eye color, number of freckles, etc., it's purely based on prior bad experiences. And we'll do pretty much anything to avoid bad experiences.
Posted By: cleveland34
10 girls turned me down due to being under 25. This is annoying
Unless your ugly, stinky, obese or some combination thereof, go to a bar, a party, or something and find a hook-up.
If a woman wants to make decisions on who she sees based on pretty much anything I have no problem with it, and you shouldn't either, she has her preferences and has every right to have them. You may want to rock that but c'mon, if she doesn't want your money then just say "her loss" and move on, this hobby should not make you angry. If the frustration of not being able to see who you want when you want becomes to much you should just give it a break, that is what I did.
10 girls turning you down, maybe it is something else about how you approach them, I have on the occasions I have contacted a provider who specified an older age group still been able to see them, maybe it is just the way I approached them.
But you know what I rarely even bother to contact women with that specification and I will tell you why, and you should consider this as to whether you are "missing" something or if she did you a favor. Now I might be wrong, but I always thought that women who only want to see guys over 40 are women who do not want to see guys in their 30's or younger who are on the average going to last longer and bring it with more energy. Also many times older men are married, some women who may not be a perfect 10 will be secure in knowing the guy will be altogether happy with their appearance seeing as she is probably much better than the wife at home. Guys who are younger on the average probably have higher standards.
As I am one who wants to have a romp every time, a wicked f*ck, I would rather know beforehand that a girl probably wants to keep it at a certain level of intensity. They have that assurance normally when they see guys over 40.
So don't sweat it and move on, if you have been turned down by 10 women then perhaps you should try to go out some place and meet a woman, kinda ridiculous to get turned down over and over by women who you are trying to pay. No offense to you, just something I started doing, I have not had problems with being rejected by age or anything else, but I have had some runs where girls cancel for some BS reason and it just becomes more work and frustration than it is worth, always keep this hobby in its proper prospective and it will not be a pain for you.
Good luck in the future.
