Well said and sad that it needed to be said. How you been besides this?
I have no problem providing reference checks as I have to several ladies lately and anyone who asks me. However, I have shared parenting of my daughter so I have her every other weekend and one day during the week. With that said this was my weekend, and this morning we went to church like usual, and then went to lunch afterward. This provider texts me and since I didn't respond in a timely manner she calls me a fat bitch and says the only reason I am famous is because I like to swallow cum....I mean REALLY??? Grow up seriously. I don't have my work phone on all the time, and I do have a life outside of this, so please have some respect, and not go off if I don't answer within the hour. It was extremely rude and uncalled for. I have no problems giving a reference check because I feel variety is the spice of life and my clients know that. I don't get mad when other guys want to see someone else, and call and harass them like some providers do.
This is NOT a competition to me, but a hobby that I enjoy immensely. Nothing that childish should come about.
Sorry you had to deal with that bull.
Just to clarify, were you vouching for the client as a ref to a provider or vouching on the providers behalf.
Either way the behavior seems uncalled for...
She acts that way toward you sounds like someone I wouldn't want to meet
A client had texted me and asked me if I would be a reference for him and I said sure no problem who is it, and he told me. He said to contact her, but I prefer they contact me...and it took her a day to contact me, and when she did and I didn't respond right away, she said all that. She is a touring provider and rather young, but still very unprofessional.
Yikes, did you tell your client about this? If it were me I would definitely not want to wind up with someone with a temper like that.
As a provider I am really sorry to hear this happened to you. I've had girls not contact me back at all when I've requested references at times and would NEVER think of reacting that way. I understand she's young, but is no excuse at all to be disrespectful.
I tend not to post on the boards a lot, due partially to the disrespectful post about provider, so it saddens me to hear that another provider would be disrespectful towards another.
BTW, saw you pics on your site. You're beautiful! And how you responded to this issues just shows how much more beautiful you are inside. Love to hear the day you had with your daughter.
Stay beautiful!
Thank you so much hun. I have other providers that pick on me because of my weight and say "oh what is she charging my the pound now" and I agree it's completely unprofessional...i am great at what I do, as are other providers, and we should be helping each other out, not hurting each other..I don't respond to it as I feel I am a better and mature person for not, but it just gets so old. There is someone out there for everyone...
Your pics are gorgeous also. I am in Chicago now, so a shame we weren't here at the same time
You're right! There is someone out there everyone. Your class, beauty, class and especially that beautiful spirit will get you a long way in this business. As I'm sure you know.
Wish I was in Chicago as well. I'm sure we'll cross paths one day.
Smooches!
Jordan
Well said and sad that it needed to be said. How you been besides this?
How you have to run and tell the whole entire world about your drama, and broadcast it over each and every 'hobby' internet channel each and every time LMFAO!
If I posted each and every time a provider was rude to me, threatened me with cease and desist letters, told other providers to avoid me, called my best friend demanding my real name, I would have no time left for a life
Get over it. I was letting others know I do have a life and yes it was rude and disrespectful. Pot calling the kettle black about broadcasting YOUR drama over every hobby internet channel. It was here, and last time I checked this is a Forum...an open one.
The f**king drama in this business with providers! Can we all just get along??!!! LOL!
Another reason why I rarely post.
It is a forum. Only a few scragglers left on this one to listen to you, though.
I'm sure the rest of the people on this forum really want to hear about people calling you names. LOL
Bad girls....NOW go straight to my room......lmao
And I just so happened to have met this "young provider" myself. I know who you're talking about because she told me all about what happened. In my experience, for as young as she is, she's perfectly professional, and has quite the different story about this situation than the one told here. In fact, I've heard her side of it multiple times now, from multiple girls, all telling the same story about you, SD, and none of them know each other so there's no conspiracy. There's just a consistency to your madness, it seems. So, while I see you enjoy being the drama victim and some of your fans love to jump in to save the wounded, I'm not buying it because. You need to grow up, get over yourself, and quit feeding off the drama
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