If you're anything like me, making out (if done correctly, of course) can be a favorite personal pastime. That said, it seems as though everyone has their own styles, likes and dislikes when it comes to kissing. So I'm curious, ladies and gents: how do you like to kiss and be kissed? What are some surefire ways that a makeout sesh can be a total buzzkill? How do y'all usually go about it?

For me, if a dude touches my face/hair/head gently at any point during such activity, I absolutely melt (see example below). On the flip side, too much tongue can ruin the moment. There's a big difference between DFK and attempting to lick my uvula (if you're not familiar with anatomy, it's not as erogenous as its spelling would suggest). However, play with my hair with one hand and cradle my face with the other and you could be licking my esophagus for all I care.  

Thoughts?

....that you get hotter with every post?  

Okay...so about your question....

I absolutely love a good make out sesh.  I'm into cuddling with my "sweetie".  In particular, I have this amazing cushy chair-and-a-half.  It's the perfect size for me to sit in with my baby curled up on my lap while we kiss.  I love lightly touching her face, neck, back, etc.  If she gets really amorous...there's plenty of room for her to straddle me (my favorite).  But even just some innocent cuddling while watching a movie or something with the occaisional smooching is really nice too.    

As for kissing technique....Crash Davis had some good thoughts...

(video linked below if you'd prefer to watch)

"Well, I believe in the soul, the cock, the pussy, the small of a woman's back, the hanging curve ball, high fiber, good scotch, that the novels of Susan Sontag are self-indulgent, overrated crap. I believe Lee Harvey Oswald acted alone. I believe there ought to be a constitutional amendment outlawing Astroturf and the designated hitter. I believe in the sweet spot, soft-core pornography, opening your presents Christmas morning rather than Christmas Eve and I believe in long, slow, deep, soft, wet kisses that last three days."

For me, variety is the spice of life.  Sometimes soft, slow, 'innocent' kissing is fantastic.  Other times more aggressive and passionate kissing can be a lot of fun.  A little tongue goes a long way.  But a little tongue is always good. Touching the face, hair, neck...all good both giving and receiving.  I love it when a lady messes with my hair.  

 

 

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I wish I would have known you liked kissing so much. Kissing is my second favorite thing behind licking vagina.
Both of you are on the money with your styles. When a woman massages my head it makes my brain turn to mush and my buddy stand at full attention. Sometimes if things seem like they are going to take a wild turn I massage the woman's cheek and neck and then give a little tug on the hair while kissing to let her know I'm down for the good stuff..... Now I am on my way to cbus so I can get my little buddies mind off of this post.

A buzzkill is the total tongue crazy stuff plus, I really have a hard time with a session without kissing.  What you have described is exactly what I like.

... Should be your new handle Jake!
LMFAO

It can't be, that's how everyone in my personal life knows me. I love that stuff.

....or the guy who has a faucet running in his mouth (just so much spit lol) where I feel like he's giving my face another wash is the worst.  Best: I like a mix of slow lingering kisses with little nibbles on the lip and little licks around the shape of the inside of the lips and passionate kissing that matches my own (not like my face is being attacked though). I think I prefer to lead in the kissing. I cheeks grazed every now and then as well as my neck (or my booty being palmed at) during making out .

The two worst kissers I've ever known I can only describe as hungry little birds.  They just opened their mouths up as wide as they could like I was going to feed them an insect or something.  I'd explore with my tongue only to find very little on their side.  It was weird.

I'm not huge into kissing.  I like exploring and being explored.  Kisses and nibble along my ear lobes and neck make me crazy...I like to gently suck on the woman's lip, ears, neck, nipples, lick along the ribs, backs of the knees, inner thighs, above the pubis, plant small kisses around the belly button.

I gotta go now...almost tipped over my desk with the hard-on I got just thinking about it.

 
Oh...almost forgot...rubbing a woman's peach fuzz the wrong way with my lips, just along her lower back and just above her derriere is also fantastic!