Ok, I had seen a Cincinnati provider had a website and is reviewed very well here and decided to try to arrange a meet. Sher would only meet for a morning meet so I drove from North of Columbus to Cincinnati and set up in a nice mid scale hotel. We had a date for the next day. Well that day comes and NOWHERE to be found.  Days later got some lame ''dog at my homework'' excuse she wanted to reset and go again.  Yet I never could get her to communicate for setting up a meeting,   So my question; since there was no actual ''meeting'' this doesn't warrant a review, but by damn I would like to know about this kind of crap.  what do the rest of you think??

TER rules.  Only thing you can do is tell guys on local board to PM you for her name.  If you post her name in open forum, you will get the inevitable shit storm.  Guys need to know who she is, and this is best way.  Sorry you had to have that happen, but unfortunately, it does happen in this hobby, on both sides.

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We both had the same thing happen this week, except I didn't have the drive and the provider did call to cancel at least. Was the provider based here or was she touring through?? The girl I was wanting to see was touring. Funny thing was the three days she was in town I don't know if she saw anyone. The first day she didn't respond to email or phone calls (I wanted to see about moving things up a day), talked to her the 2nd day and got confirmation of our date that evening and later cancelled on as she said she had a headache. Maybe she actually saw someone on the third day who knows, she offered to see me that third day with a discounted rate even and I politely turned it down, I wasn't going to be strung along another day and end up disappointed again.

Her intitals were not B. D. were they???

The appointment I had was all set up a couple days before and it was cancelled day of, hours before.

Actually the roads were kinda bad and I was dredding the trip, although I was ready to make an effort as I like to keep my commitments. Funny thing was I almost knew, had a feeling, I was going to get cancelled on.

What happened to you is one big reason I won't travel beyond 45 minutes to see a girl, the chances of BS like that happening seem to be too much of a possibility in this hobby.

Aside from the subpar selection that is another depressing to the point of being funny (I mean all you can do is laugh sometimes right) is the amount of cancellations,crummy communication and other goofy stuff you get alot of the time from these girls. I seem to do ok once I meet a girl in this hobby, but that seems to be the hard part half the time, actually meeting them.

There was a smokin blonde from Cali that ran an ad on eros, I think it was before Christmas, maybe right after, that said she would be in town from like Dec 26th to January5th (I might be wrong by a few days). Anyway I contacted her twice and each time she said she had not arrived yet, the 2nd time she said she wouldn't be in town until the 3rd, I have no idea if she even stepped foot in the city as I gave up after the 2nd call.

You spend time filling out online forms and such and then you don't hear back, or you hear back a couple days later, half the time with requests to rewrite what you provided in the form.

I don't know if it is like this everywhere, it probably is, but I think it is funny how difficult it can be alot of the time in this hobby to give your $$ away. I sometimes wonder how much money these ladies leave on the table every year because they don't seem to have much of anything in order.

Fact is most guys will jump through hoops to see the girls, so they really don't need to be relaible or respectful of ones time. I also know very well that most ladies who do this are not the most organized or structured people, I don't need to be told that, I get it.

The thing is I have never wasted a providers time by cancelling, I only set something up if I know I can make it as agreed. With that said I expect the same in return and my rule is if I get cancelled on or if a girl doesn't seem interested in my inquiry, then I will just find something else to do with my time and $$$.

Hope your able to get over the frustration there osumi, that sucks, that is just rude if she knew full well that you were travelling to see her.

This happens alot to me too, but I guess it also happens to the providers as well so thats probably why it's not a feature of TER? I like to see them add it somehow and I'd like to see them ad a way for the providers to review us too? I'm tired of being lumped into shity categories because the providers are getting stuck with fat discusting weirdo's who are married and pop in 5 minutes. Anyone else know what I mean?

I'm so sorry that happened to you. But as a provider we get stood up alll the time, not that its right either way. She may hav had something serios come up & not want to tell you her personal reason of what happened, still it is no excuse for her to not give you a call, but it's not good to try to ruin her reputation over something that may have been out of her control, she still should have called to let you know she needed to cancel, but anything cud have happened (& guys u have to remember we don't have to tell u what really happened, like our child/parent had an accident its our personal life). I personally have many ppl set up appts with me, I go ahead & make a note of it, but that's it because I get stood up 95% of the time without a cancellation call. I will stay close by if I'm needing to run errands & wait til I get a confirmation call.
If it's a week in advance or a couple of days, I ask that they contact me via phone/text & leave a message that they are still coming & at the same time. Then I ask for them to again confirm on the day of with a quick text again telling me the time & they always need to call/text 30mins to an hour ahead so that I know they are on their way. It seems complicated but I've had my time wasted so many times, this method I think helps both parties to make sure nothing comes up My cancels don't even give a cancellation notice, so I figure other girls go through the same situations. This doesn't make it right that she didn't show & it was downright rude she didn't answer her phone, I'm curios did u two do any confirmations?