Here is a question….I consider it an important part of the experience to provide new clients with the "look" that they prefer a lady to have on a date. I take a great amount of time and care about my personal appearance and grooming. Many clients have specific preferences in dress, make-up and hair style which I welcome and strive to accommodate. In the past, I have asked new clients who don't ask for a certain look, if they have any preferences. Most of the time, they leave it up to me. This would be fine except that I have then had a couple of experiences with gentlemen, who declined to make requests, later telling me that they would have preferred more casual dress or less make-up or something else etc. SO….guys, do you want us to ask?? Do you prefer to be surprised? And if so, are you prepared to be happy with what you see? Perhaps there is some etiquette about this that I am unaware of? Just wondering…..

...and then act disappointed in not getting what they didn't ask for. I suppose that when scheduling an appointment you can include language that you are happy to accommodate wardrobe requests and also have some alternate outfits on hand during the date. I do think it's fair to say that most of us don't want to be smeared with makeup and perfume, or taste chemicals when we kiss and lick you, so don't go overboard in that regard (no stage makeup!).

in regards to dress.  I'm happy with whatever makes you feel comfortable and sexy... I will say that most of the time I am attracted to a lady based on what she has on in her pictures... so you can't go wrong if you were to go with that look.  

You're doing your part in asking (which not as many ladies do as you might think). And if they don't respond, then hard for it to be your fault. Some, like myself, post their preferences when we can (on sites like P411). While I prefer the girl next door look, naughty can be nice as well.  

No makeup and no perfume. Be creative and be yourself. If a guy is a regular it helps to come up with a different outfit. It is nice that you keep your hair long. Very important for arousal.

Me.

Style has always been important to me. I've been getting my haircut at a salon since I was in high school. So I would expect my date to wear something stunning.. I like to wear suits, so that's what I would dress in.. The lone provider I seen wore flip-flops, jeans with holes in them, and a tank top. Her fingernail polish was chipped also. That was such a turn-off to me, I left in the middle of the session..  

If there is something in your web pictures that intrigues me, I will ask for that.  If not, I am happy with whatever you have one when I arrive, typically, the less the better.

... when a lady asks me if I have any special requests in regards to wardrobe, I always tell them the same thing...

If they don't specify, they have no right to whine later. Besides, there's not really anything you could do to look anything less than gorgeous.

Why thank you beautiful….means a lot coming from gorgeous you!

Posted By: Tobi Telford

If they don't specify, they have no right to whine later. Besides, there's not really anything you could do to look anything less than gorgeous.

Well, pretty much what I thought….once I have seen a gentleman a couple times, I can usually get a good sense of the things they like or dislike. I usually try to dress sexy/classy and somewhat upscale….I do wear perfume unless asked not to and the same make-up I would wear for any date. I guess cleanliness and good grooming is most important for me so I assume that is the main thing for clients also! I can't imagine a provider who would show up with chipped nails and flip-flops!! Anyway….just something I was wondering about….appreciate the input!

and everything else should fall in line. Perhaps read a couple of reviews to determine his tastes. In the end, if they don't visit again because something as petty as what you were wearing, then it can't be much of a loss for you. I'd certainly press if you were meeting first in a public place or going out to dinner. Then, of course, you would want to be appropriately dressed for the environment. My preference is for you to be comfortable on the outside and sexy underneath.  

I want to see them in clothes or not. That is, I prefer when a lady has clothes on (fully dressed) and not just a robe or bra/panties.

In our first correspondence I always ask if they have an attire request. If not I dress in what I feel sexy in, and hope they like it. Most of the time they do have requests though and I have no problems adhering to them!