For me personally, DATY(and from someone who knows how to properly DATY) is all that is needed. Keep in mind that, unlike men, in which your entire member has nerve endings, only our clit has nerve endings... hence, just pounding away will usually not elicit a proper response, as our clit is not being manipulated.

So I have been reading many of the VIP posts now that I am a VIP.  I see some girls are said to O during the encounter.  Three or four have this mentioned by more than one member.

Are these guys Casanovas, are these girls putting a show, or what?

How is the best way to make a provider o?

Believe it or not, some of us got into this work because we genuinely have a high libido and enjoy what we do. I almost always have multiple O's with gents because I only see 1 or very rarely 2 a day. I'd think that if a girl is high volume, she would have no choice but to put on a show.

The best way to give it to a provider would be the same as you would with any other woman- make sure you take your time exploring her body and make sure she's aroused before you get to the main course. But unlike civies, we tend to know our bodies very well, which makes everything much easier. I personally prefer a lot of DFK, touching and 69ing, but other ladies might be different. Don't underestimate yourself or your skills and just ask the lady what she likes if you're unsure how to read her moans and other cues!

especially with some new guy for an hour session.

The reviews are written by fellas that saw her moan, squirm and wriggle at "his" touch...but they are pros and want to make the experience a really good one for most customers.

Don't sweat it too much.  And if seeing your gal pal have an O is important to you...just let her know that really turns you on.  And I have NO doubts she will "perform" for you with some exuberance.

And if you get to know a few gals really well...they'll let you know the real story.  And having O's with random Johns is NOT an occurrence that happens very often (as in NEVER)...

Just don't tell those Johns that write the "Harlequin Romance Novels"...they actually believe the whole show!

Uhm, thats terrible that you think this. Women know their bodies or most of us as mature women do. It is not that difficult to have an orgasm if everything is in the right position and I know exactly how to get my gentlemen in that position. Myself, I am multi-orgasmic so there will be O's and plenty of them once we hit the spot. There's no need to fake pure pleasure and alot of us really enjoy what we do and its not a performance.

Since my clients aren't random and we see each other on a regular basis, we do know each others bodies and how and what it takes to please us. Even my first encounter gentlemen have had no trouble getting me to that point because of communication.

And have NEVER met this John...you will be "comfortable" enough to actually relax enough to enjoy the session to orgasm?  Redundant question as you have already said you do...and of course I believe you, just as much as I believe all the reviews where the Johns talk of getting a gal off (and often more than once).

Guys have the ability to orgasm with a stranger and NO real connection (although many do have difficulty with you gals for the same reasons).  But to honestly tell me that you will not be worried about "is he LE", "is he a ROB", "is he stinky and clumsy"...and so on and on.  

Can it NEVER happen...sure it can.  And on very very rare occasions it does.  But almost NEVER on a first date, and only when YOU (or most gals) learn that the John is a decent fella...isn't going to "chew your clit" off...try and "unscrew your tits"..and not going to do any real harm.  Then perhaps you might achieve an O...but generally the Hitachi Wand is the culprit...not some fellas dick or tongue.

But I'm sure you're that "one in a million".

it does happen, just not nearly as much as a lot of hobbyists think.
A lot of the providers are good actresses and have been faking O's for years. Of course they want to make you feel good. That's their job.

A provider who sees 4 or 5 guys a day is not going to O for each guy that day. It simply doesn't happen.

I just want to also remind you of something. You are paying them. Worry less about them having an O and more about yourself having that O. If you are more worried about them enjoying themselves, then you are setting yourself up for a let down.

I stopped reviewing

To the OP, a vibrator is the best way to give a woman an orgasm, and it's alot less work.

If the OP wants to see a "real orgasm" he would be best served to watch Meg Ryan in "When Harry met Sally"...

Very few gals are able to replicate that great scene.  It's the ones that try and create that illusion and are just so over the top that it's asinine...and frankly comical.

But there are some ladies here that are really really good at that scene...and what guy wouldn't be proud of how "he got her off?".

And not just a vibrator...The Hitachi Wand...give it a whirl with your next gal pal.  Tough to fake it with that toy!

with Fav ladies, I can not give her an O.  I can not force her.  I can let her.  We are trusted companions at this point.   Not all Os are the same, I thing some may have a low level or close to O that they enjoy.  But a full extended rolling O is rare.  
I have been privledged to accompany a favorite lady on that journey occasionally.  Sometimes they won't allow it.  One such Fav lady...  after that event, she takes considerable recovery time before she can squeeze.  
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Again, many ladies do not see 4-5 guys a day, lol. There are many of us who do not even see that many in a week. I personally never see more than one, except for when on tour, so having one O a day, is not that complicated. And again, if a guy has given proper screening, half the battle has been won already. For me, personality wins over looks any day of the week, & if someone knows how to use their tongue correctly, well...

Yes I can have an O on a first date.  Plenty of the time! More so than not!  
Wow, so many "women" here are such an expert on where, when, and how we can orgasm!  

I won't fake it!
I don't fake it!
Because I don't have to!  

I think answering this questions would be better left to those who actually posses a vagina!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
WOW!

Sure...whatever you say!

Fortunately the OP doesn't have a vagina and is looking for "serious" answers.

Sorry you don't like to respond with the truth, but you and the others here who are using this platform to market yourself to the "newbies" is getting stale.  

There's a few of "us" who have been around a while...and have learned a tad more than YOU might want to think.  That's the purpose of THIS board...sharing those experiences and ideas with the newbies.  The OP is impressionable and "looking for answers".  HE is probably smart enough (and certainly once he sees a few gals will know the "truth as well") to see how this game is played.

Don't fret gals...there's another newbie on the way tomorrow and you can sell him your babble.  YOU know some will buy it hook, line and sinker.  Others will appreciate your theatrical skills.  And there will actually be a few who really think they "got you off"...to those fellas...keep up the "good work"!

And even MORE hype

As I replied to fallon....

Whatever you say!

You certainly don't seem willing to tell him the answers based on your repeated posts claiming the absurd.

His question is "how to make a provider O"...and the ONLY answer he needs to know is to PAY HER.  It's just that simple.

But you and a few others need to puff yourselves up as something that you are NOT.  I'm sure you're a nice gal, give a nice session, make the guy feel good and maybe show him your "O" face...great!  That's why you are getting paid for this.

If you're NOT doing that, then you won't be in this gig all that long.

Don't mistake the "truthfulness" many discuss here on this VERY topic for what YOU are claiming as "being negative".  I am NOT negative in this regard...simply want to let a newbie know that this is all about him...NOT about YOU!!

Nikkey,

I have heard this before.  So there is no way you will O unless it is DATY, or is it still possible through skilled FS?

You've been a big help on this thread

Either lead...follow...or get the hell out of the way

I will give a brief summary of the pseudo-intellectual diarrhea contained in all your posts.

1) I know everything about everything and only my opinion is valid even though I never back any of them with any statistical evidence.

2) All hookers lie about everything.

3) I know everything.

4) All hookers only care about money.

5) I know everything.

6) Hookers don't have feelings.

7) Did I mention I know everything.

Did I mention that I know everything...

And probably know your alias as well.

But you are pretty much on target with your items...in particular # 2, #4

The rest is purely speculation on your part...but obviously you are another of those that "knows everything"...since you read "all my posts" and that is what you come away with.  

Perhaps time to get a job and quit playing "board cop"...you aren't very good at that either!!

And maybe take your "own advice"...DON'T FEED THE TROLLS...

It is much harder to O through just straight sex. It is possible, much much harder, lol. You can also reach around in doggy, for instance, & manipulate her clit (just make sure you ask what pressure she likes, as everyone is different).

Not true with everyone, as I personally highly dislike vibrators & dildos. Again, every lady is different.

The alternate explanation here is that CPA needs to work on his skills and not be so negative. Talk about self-fulfilling prophesy...

She had a very good reason for this, I don't even know why she told me what she did. This was more of a hook up then a paid date, I didn't mention toys or anything.

... I'm posting with it.

"The rest is purely speculation on your part" ... just like "all" your posts where you pretend opinion is fact and you're privy to some "inside" information.

Thanks for the food ... Look ...  I can put "quotes" ... around ... "everything" ... with ... dots ... too!!!

Care to try again? When you go down swinging I'll PM you ... maybe you can make a gal "o" by then.

You know I can't flip it here as those are grounds for banning...

But it was nice to know that you got it...read it and agree with me on this issue.

Thanks...and we'll chat again soon

Now you know why only one alias isn't such a good thing

I wonder. Will you actually have the integrity to admit here publicly that, once again, you actually have no idea what you are talking about when I PM you ... I think not.

As for the alias thing, I could not care less ... as you will see when I flip my own alias to you after you strike out with your 3rd swing of the bat ... and we all know there will be a 3rd because you just have to have the last word.

Me hungry ... need more "food"!!!

Amazing...and you have the audacity to think "I know everything".

You give me the whole verse and chapter by PM....but to save face with your "pals" here you deny that I was able to ID you on the first "guess".

And that was without your clues

... The Mighty Misogynist has struck out!!!

LOL ... now you resort to flat out lies about us exchanging PM's. How old are you?

...right here publicly. You have my permission. Cut and paste those PM's we've been exchanging too ...  and hurry up with my pizza, it's 30 minutes or less. Hold the anchovies too or no "tip" this time ... tip of my dick!!!

That's where that great river is and you are bloviating from.

If you need to keep on denying the truth..do so.

And now you need to ask "how old I am".  The alias poster that seems to "know all about me?".  You should indeed know how old I am....

Now get back to work...it seems like the phone may be ringing shortly?

I did not ask admin to flip my alias nor have I received any request. I am giving permission to you, and only you, to post my handle here in this thread since you know it and we exchange PM's right? Nice try on distorting the facts and the truth ... once again. It is obvious you are a complete tool but the complete lack of integrity is a tiny bit surprising. "Gotcha"

see behind the curtain as well?

All you need do is acknowledge the request from Admin to "flip your alias" as they have requested you confirm you want to indeed be flipped (as you posted here).

But I guess you prefer to hide behind that little skirt you're wearing

Gotcha....

Why deny that you didn't get the request from Admin.  Amazing that now you want to deny that as well

As you well know that I cannot flip it here without banning...but I forwarded your post to Admin (which you are well aware of) and they replied that they have sent you the request (as you are also well aware of).

You wouldn't want me to get banned now...would YOU?

So be a "big man" and let them do the flipping so anyone else who actually cares to know your handle can do so.  But you and I both know already...so I am sure you'll just keep up this charade!

But yea...you're a player..NOT!

The first thing you got right ... you are NOT a player!

Still waiting...

Still waiting ...

your earlier posts claim we have already been exchanging PM's ... looks like someone is showing their true colors.

BTW ... still waiting

Next time don't be such a smart ass and give permission to be flipped when you really didn't want others to know why you needed to post as an alias.

You and I know...

But I also know why you need to keep your real handle a secret from the others who might be interested.

Your history precedes you!

Hopefully TER will allow you to come up with another alias since this one has been "used"!!

as Sunday is Easter and you can enjoy the second coming...

The first has already been in your mailbox (including my PM's) and I hope you are having fun pretending you are such a "smarty pants".

Till next time my friend.  

Why not shoot me a reply personally to my inbox?  You know you want to...I know you've read my emails to you...go for it if you dare!

some can reach orgasms easily, some never do.  that's true for providers or non-providers.  just how are you an expert on how often providers get an orgasm?  you're not even a provider!