I wonder. Will you actually have the integrity to admit here publicly that, once again, you actually have no idea what you are talking about when I PM you ... I think not.
As for the alias thing, I could not care less ... as you will see when I flip my own alias to you after you strike out with your 3rd swing of the bat ... and we all know there will be a 3rd because you just have to have the last word.
Me hungry ... need more "food"!!!
So I have been reading many of the VIP posts now that I am a VIP. I see some girls are said to O during the encounter. Three or four have this mentioned by more than one member.
Are these guys Casanovas, are these girls putting a show, or what?
How is the best way to make a provider o?
Believe it or not, some of us got into this work because we genuinely have a high libido and enjoy what we do. I almost always have multiple O's with gents because I only see 1 or very rarely 2 a day. I'd think that if a girl is high volume, she would have no choice but to put on a show.
The best way to give it to a provider would be the same as you would with any other woman- make sure you take your time exploring her body and make sure she's aroused before you get to the main course. But unlike civies, we tend to know our bodies very well, which makes everything much easier. I personally prefer a lot of DFK, touching and 69ing, but other ladies might be different. Don't underestimate yourself or your skills and just ask the lady what she likes if you're unsure how to read her moans and other cues!
For me personally, DATY(and from someone who knows how to properly DATY) is all that is needed. Keep in mind that, unlike men, in which your entire member has nerve endings, only our clit has nerve endings... hence, just pounding away will usually not elicit a proper response, as our clit is not being manipulated.
Nikkey,
I have heard this before. So there is no way you will O unless it is DATY, or is it still possible through skilled FS?
It is much harder to O through just straight sex. It is possible, much much harder, lol. You can also reach around in doggy, for instance, & manipulate her clit (just make sure you ask what pressure she likes, as everyone is different).
I have heard this before. So there is no way you will O unless it is DATY, or is it still possible through skilled FS?
especially with some new guy for an hour session.
The reviews are written by fellas that saw her moan, squirm and wriggle at "his" touch...but they are pros and want to make the experience a really good one for most customers.
Don't sweat it too much. And if seeing your gal pal have an O is important to you...just let her know that really turns you on. And I have NO doubts she will "perform" for you with some exuberance.
And if you get to know a few gals really well...they'll let you know the real story. And having O's with random Johns is NOT an occurrence that happens very often (as in NEVER)...
Just don't tell those Johns that write the "Harlequin Romance Novels"...they actually believe the whole show!
Uhm, thats terrible that you think this. Women know their bodies or most of us as mature women do. It is not that difficult to have an orgasm if everything is in the right position and I know exactly how to get my gentlemen in that position. Myself, I am multi-orgasmic so there will be O's and plenty of them once we hit the spot. There's no need to fake pure pleasure and alot of us really enjoy what we do and its not a performance.
Since my clients aren't random and we see each other on a regular basis, we do know each others bodies and how and what it takes to please us. Even my first encounter gentlemen have had no trouble getting me to that point because of communication.
And have NEVER met this John...you will be "comfortable" enough to actually relax enough to enjoy the session to orgasm? Redundant question as you have already said you do...and of course I believe you, just as much as I believe all the reviews where the Johns talk of getting a gal off (and often more than once).
Guys have the ability to orgasm with a stranger and NO real connection (although many do have difficulty with you gals for the same reasons). But to honestly tell me that you will not be worried about "is he LE", "is he a ROB", "is he stinky and clumsy"...and so on and on.
Can it NEVER happen...sure it can. And on very very rare occasions it does. But almost NEVER on a first date, and only when YOU (or most gals) learn that the John is a decent fella...isn't going to "chew your clit" off...try and "unscrew your tits"..and not going to do any real harm. Then perhaps you might achieve an O...but generally the Hitachi Wand is the culprit...not some fellas dick or tongue.
But I'm sure you're that "one in a million".
The alternate explanation here is that CPA needs to work on his skills and not be so negative. Talk about self-fulfilling prophesy...
I stopped reviewing
To the OP, a vibrator is the best way to give a woman an orgasm, and it's alot less work.
If the OP wants to see a "real orgasm" he would be best served to watch Meg Ryan in "When Harry met Sally"...
Very few gals are able to replicate that great scene. It's the ones that try and create that illusion and are just so over the top that it's asinine...and frankly comical.
But there are some ladies here that are really really good at that scene...and what guy wouldn't be proud of how "he got her off?".
And not just a vibrator...The Hitachi Wand...give it a whirl with your next gal pal. Tough to fake it with that toy!
Not true with everyone, as I personally highly dislike vibrators & dildos. Again, every lady is different.
To the OP, a vibrator is the best way to give a woman an orgasm, and it's alot less work.
She had a very good reason for this, I don't even know why she told me what she did. This was more of a hook up then a paid date, I didn't mention toys or anything.
Yes I can have an O on a first date. Plenty of the time! More so than not!
Wow, so many "women" here are such an expert on where, when, and how we can orgasm!
I won't fake it!
I don't fake it!
Because I don't have to!
I think answering this questions would be better left to those who actually posses a vagina!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
WOW!
Sure...whatever you say!
Fortunately the OP doesn't have a vagina and is looking for "serious" answers.
Sorry you don't like to respond with the truth, but you and the others here who are using this platform to market yourself to the "newbies" is getting stale.
There's a few of "us" who have been around a while...and have learned a tad more than YOU might want to think. That's the purpose of THIS board...sharing those experiences and ideas with the newbies. The OP is impressionable and "looking for answers". HE is probably smart enough (and certainly once he sees a few gals will know the "truth as well") to see how this game is played.
Don't fret gals...there's another newbie on the way tomorrow and you can sell him your babble. YOU know some will buy it hook, line and sinker. Others will appreciate your theatrical skills. And there will actually be a few who really think they "got you off"...to those fellas...keep up the "good work"!
some can reach orgasms easily, some never do. that's true for providers or non-providers. just how are you an expert on how often providers get an orgasm? you're not even a provider!
it does happen, just not nearly as much as a lot of hobbyists think.
A lot of the providers are good actresses and have been faking O's for years. Of course they want to make you feel good. That's their job.
A provider who sees 4 or 5 guys a day is not going to O for each guy that day. It simply doesn't happen.
I just want to also remind you of something. You are paying them. Worry less about them having an O and more about yourself having that O. If you are more worried about them enjoying themselves, then you are setting yourself up for a let down.
Again, many ladies do not see 4-5 guys a day, lol. There are many of us who do not even see that many in a week. I personally never see more than one, except for when on tour, so having one O a day, is not that complicated. And again, if a guy has given proper screening, half the battle has been won already. For me, personality wins over looks any day of the week, & if someone knows how to use their tongue correctly, well...
A lot of the providers are good actresses and have been faking O's for years. Of course they want to make you feel good. That's their job.
A provider who sees 4 or 5 guys a day is not going to O for each guy that day. It simply doesn't happen.
I just want to also remind you of something. You are paying them. Worry less about them having an O and more about yourself having that O. If you are more worried about them enjoying themselves, then you are setting yourself up for a let down.
with Fav ladies, I can not give her an O. I can not force her. I can let her. We are trusted companions at this point. Not all Os are the same, I thing some may have a low level or close to O that they enjoy. But a full extended rolling O is rare.
I have been privledged to accompany a favorite lady on that journey occasionally. Sometimes they won't allow it. One such Fav lady... after that event, she takes considerable recovery time before she can squeeze.
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