gotten the okay from TER re having a site with their logo on one of the first two pages). Try also your local boards after you've met their requirements.

As a matter of business, you'll never know if your dollars are wasted until after you've set the ads. Did you get enough responses in keeping with the money you set out? If the answer is yes, then you'll know your formula works. If the answer is no, then you'll need to try something different, but not necessarily a different site. If you get yeses but not as many as you'd like, then you may just need to tweak the ad.

It's called marketing and it's all about how you present yourself. I suggest you study the ads you like; don't copy them but include the elements that you think will present YOU in the best light possible.

Good luck darling, and welcome to the sisterhood.