after exchanging several PM's with a well known, well reviewed provider she agreed to  see me ( YEEEEEEEEEEEEEEAH), then to my dismay I received a PM saying she read my reviews & feels she might not be my type of gal & that she'll pass on seeing me. I suggested that she musta only read the last one cause my first experience was excellent
my last review was pretty harsh , so my theory is that some gals would prefer not see a guy if she thinks she'll get bashed too

I'm always careful about posting a real bad review.

The ones that were truly horrible I do, bu tthe ones that were so-so I typically won't give a horrible review, but a decent one with a disclaimer as it could be me, could be a bad day for them, or she simply wasn't into the same things I am

it wasnt THAT bad a review , wait till you see my next one, that expereince sucked & not in a good way either.
its just that this gal was almost 200 pounds, if I wanted to be a chubby chaser i could go to any bar USA at 2 am, buy a couple of drinks & bang a fat chick, plus she spent 10 minutes reading her reviews on her laptop which is fine but dont do it on MY time

You did clearly state in a review that you aren't into thicker ladies-- maybe she put on a few pounds.

Reviews help the ladies as well. It gives insight into what he wants from an experience as well. If someone contacts me, and I read his reviews, I might find a few things that may be an issue for him.

I would much rather put it out there, or tell him that I don't think I am the right provider for what he is looking for.

That way, no one is in an uncomfortable position, or feels dissapointed or taken advantage of.

Sometimes it can open a dialogue, with the hobbiest explaining that he is looking for something different from his normal pattern. Then if everyone is on the same page, all is good.

your attitude comes off very clear... In not only your 2 reviews but even this message board posting has a certain "flair". I'm betting that she didn't want to deal with that and its not "fear of being bashed" The fact that you even use that term means she probably made the right choice.

We get a lot of inquiries and maybe you said something in a phone conversation or an email that made her think it might not be a good match and then after consideration of that she canceled.

Obviously she cares about her clients having a good time, and didn't think she could provide you with that. There are many reasons we cancel or don't book with people and being able ascertain a good match is part of the job.

We don't have to see every guy that wants to see us, we have freedom of choice too.

Based on your comments here, as well as the way you write your reviews, you sound like a fairly young guy. To be perfectly frank, that would turn me off too. It has nothing to do with the bad review.

please do not take this personal as I do not know you HOWEVER, based on your comments above, you sound very disrespectful / deragatory / angry / etc... and, as Jenny said, we too have a choice on who we spend our time with... And, most of us prefer to enjoy ourselves and not deal with someone's attitude for an hr or 2....

P.S. My first review was done by someone with plenty of "bad" reviews, however they're not mean or angry; they're funny and actually make you feel bad that he saw someone that horrible.  So, to disagree with your theory... bad reviews is not the issue you're having...  Check your attitude, honey; you should be fine.  

Good luck.




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At this point being a very mature older not hardbody provider it is important to be sure that my reviews for service reflect exactly what I do offer and not what I look like. Many gentlemen don't know how to separate those facts.I read the reviews to be sure that my company is going to be the best for you and mention any differences we might face. I hope that when I tell a gentlemen that I feel I am not the right lady for him because whatever, I am doing him a service. Now in many cases I will land up seeing someone who I thought because of my age he would not be happy. I usually don't ask anyone to read my reviews but if you do you will see some 6's for my looks and the only 10 for performance was from a very nice young man who gave me one of those 6's.
    Kisses Haley

I kind of agree with you on the weight one, but my standards are pretty flexible.

As long as they are not the girl like shallow hal, I think any girl could turn me on.

and if the provider happens to be like the girl in shallow hal, weight is also a concern, but my main concern would be would she be able to enjoy it as much as I would if I get turned on, because my sausage is not the size of a horse.

The lady you say you 'bashed'?  It is very painfully clear from her previous reviews what she looked like. If you did any research at all, you had to have known, yet you chose to go anyway... I dunno, maybe the well-reviewed provider saw that as well.