So like most of you I have a SO.  In your experience if you develop a regular relationship with a provider, will she allow email contact only?  I would like to keep this off my phone records since it is a shared line.  And if so, do you know of any (or if you are reading this ladies) in the Atlanta area that would work this way.  I am not VIP so I cannot accept PM's right now.  Thanks all.

Yes there are some ladies who communicate only by email, but many will use voice and texting by phone. If you are getting into this, you really should consider getting a hobby phone. (Tractphone or similar, purchased with cash. Minutes purchased with cash.) Use it only for hobbying, and hide it well when when not using it. Read back on this board, as many pages as you can. You will see this topic come up over and over again (inclucing just a few threads down) as well as tons of other questions you might have, that you will find out were already answered. Also take advantage of the search feature at the top of the board. You can search for other questions. the default date range is 30. Change it to 300 or something like that so the search goes further back. Read the self help manual (on the main newbie page, at the top near the life preserver)

You should also get VIP so you can do proper research in finding the right lady. There is a cash option to pay for VIP, so you don't have to worry about paying with a joint bank credit card.

As for finding specific ladies, the newbie board is not the place for that. Feel free to come back here and ask any newbie questions, and many here will gladly help, but your search of providers should be done by researching reviews (after you get VIP), reading the regional ad board and the regional discussion boards, and asking on the ISO board if you can't find one through those other methods.

...$30 a month if you go the monthly pay option. That is a lot cheaper than a loss/waste of $250 to $300 or more because of an unsatisfactory session or worse. Check out the pay by cash option of VIP that perfectstorm mentioned.

You should also be able to buy one of those pre-loaded Visa gift cards at a convenience store and use those if you don't want to pay by cash.  I haven't done this myself (yet) but I have read that they work just fine.

When you arrive at the location specified...  hotel lot, cross roads, what ever...   You call the number she's given you...  tells you the room number, apartment, or additional directions for the final approach.  
Buy with cash.  Register to a fake address not linked to you.  Do not link to email.  (You may want a hobby email, but keep them separate.)  Shut off, clear calls IN/OUT & hide well when not in use.

You are right to be careful.  In fact, after you have read the self help section (link by the life saver) read back on this board.  There are so many tips aboout not leaving tracks & being discreet.

I picked up a Trac Phone for all of $10 and airtime is purchased separately in blocks of minutes, also starting at around $10. IMHO a very worthwhile purchase. Just keep it hidden! You can find Trac Phones and airtime cards for sale side-by-side in most big-box stores and some smaller national chains, pharmacies, etc. Another plus - no contract! Good luck bcatl, happy hobbying!

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