My (first) Provider uses a multip-Provider house (i.e. trick pad?). I didn't know that when booking and it kind of freaked me out. The place was clean, nice neighborhood, but no atmosphere. I asked my Provider if she was independent. She said she was but she rented the room at the house. How much is this rental expense costing her (and therefore me)? As incall goes, should I search elsewhere for an Indy with truly her own, private location?

I wouldn't spend too much time fixating on the ASP's cost structure.  The bottom line for me would be is the service provided worth the cost to me.  In assessing 'service provided' I would consider my comfort with the incall location.  For me, if the place isn't all that private, I might not appreciate it much.  But hey, the bottom line is whether you're comfortable with the situation.  If not, move on.

You are paying the provider an agreed upon fee for her time spent with you, e.g. $300 for an hour session.  How she arrives at her fee structure and how she might spend that money is of no consequence to you.

Your advance research (reading reviews) should allow you to make an informed decision as to whether or not you want to book an engagement.  This information will inform you as to what the prevailing rates are in your general location, what her particular rates and services are, how others perceived her services, etc.  If you like what you learn then you make the date.

Afterwards you then can personally judge the total quality of the session based upon your experience. If there is something that you did not like or that made you feel uncomfortable then as mentioned above you move on and find a different lady the next time.  

If you really liked the lady and had a great time but only the location bothered you then tell her.  Perhaps she would be willing to find alternative accomodations for your next date.  You can always ask and the worse that happens is she says no.  Then once again you know it's time to move on.      



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Research is the key to knowing what you can expect. Regardless of her expenses if you thought the service was worth the donation then all is well… if not then write a review and express your thoughts. (*You might be the first one to comment that the location is less than desirable and others may have thought so but just didn’t say it*)

Just as a heads up and a red flag…. Too many providers in one location usually means excessive traffic that attracts attention. Unless they are very together ladies who communicate and plan effectively, the multi- providers in one location can often present more headaches than benefits.

As a provide, my suggested donation doesn’t usually fluctuate depending on what hotel I happened to have been utilizing that week, or which sites I was advertising on for that month… so, I just had to decided for myself and plan my investment … not adjust the donation in proportion to my expenditures….
Just my thoughts  Kisses ~T



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Many ladies share an incall.  It can be quite expensive to keep a second house or apartment soley for work, especially if your lady is a low-volumn provider.

If it was clean and in a nice neighborhood, the only other consideration that I would ask is, did it feel discreet?  If so, it seems only "atmosphere" was missing?  Most hotels have none.    If you visit the lady again, perhaps consider giving her a gift certificate to a home decor store or bring a pretty thing for the place.

As to what it cost her, I'm sure it was less than a hotel would, or why bother having to schedule and share the time with anyone else in a space?  I doubt it costs you anything.  Most ladies base their rates on the local market, not their incall.

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And ditto everything said before me....
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For providers to share locations - as above, depends upon your comfort level with the situation.  Reasons may vary for sharing a location, from a lady coming back out of retirement, personal situation that demands a change etc.  I know several ladies who share pads in one way or another, and comfort never an issue for a session with them.  Don't believe the location is so important particularly if you have an already established relationship with the lass.

Sweetheart that is a very unique necklace. What is it?

Awapuhi-Ke’oke’o ( or white ginger) ….it is a flower that is native to my favorite Island,
Oahu. It is found on many of the trails and throughout the tropic area of the North Shore…

The fragrant that it has is the most common recognized scent from the Islands. (*I always try to wear this very fragrant Lei while I am on the Island*) The photo was taken during while on of my favorite Holiday get-aways, to Oahu… (*I just returned last week after a month Holiday that started in Oahu*)

Thanks for noticing, the link attached will give you more details on this, truly unique to the area, charm….
(*Now you have my mind back in Hawaii *LOL*) … Kisses ~T


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Your responses helped me a great deal. I now better understand the whys of a multi-provider location, the real drivers for a pricing structure, and how much such a location type does or does not matter. Before long I won't be a Newbie any more!!!!