who insist that any client give a TER or other board handle and then screen to see only generous raters.
The good news is that the high quality gals have no fear of seeing tough scorers because they know that they will score well and when clients in the know review those scores from a tough scorer and see that she does well by him, they will be all the more interested in seeing them.
I recently posted a not so flattering review of a local provider. The only reason I did so was because of all of the very favorable reviews posted, led me to see her. Well, she saw it and has since sent me a few "choice" messages. My intention was to not slam her, it was to inform the community of MY experience. I haven't responded to her and don't plan to. I am worried that she is now posting negative things about me, which could jeopardize meeting other providers in the future. Any advice or suggestions?
i posted a review of someone that contained some negative, but true, information - photos were deceptive with respect to figure and something else - i ended up asking if i could re-edit the review after it was submitted and was allowed to do so by the mods
i learned my lesson from that, and you should from this too
as a result, here's my suggestions and opinions:
#1 - you are correct in not replying to her - any stress about the situation will fade in due time...repeated contact on her end should give you a hint to add her to your blocked senders list or block her phone number from your phone
#2 - make sure you have good references from established providers and feel free to continue using them - being a client who has a bad experience and being a client who doesn't pay or makes her uncomfortable are two different things....she will not blacklist you becase of you review, and i've had zero problems since my "incident"
#3 - i try not to offer up my TER handle when booking a date - if she asks, i consider it on a case by case basis - i only do this with women who have consistent and good reviews after one or two e-mails has made me comfortable
#4 - if i have what i consider a "bad date" with someone who knows my handle, i tend not to post a review...other people obviously like her and i got a YMMV date - if she knows your handle and you don't post a review, she can probably put two and two together and figure out that you didn't really enjoy your time - think about when you look at reviews and see one bad one among a bunch of glowing ones....the one bad one usually doesn't prevent you from making the call, and yours probably won't either
Thanks for the input. You make a lot of good points. I wasn't going to post a review at first, like you said YMMV...but, I was compelled to for the fact that she consistently scored very well. I was 100% honest and quite fair in my review and she knows it... I have solid references and white lists, hopefully any future providers will have good judgement.
I agree with all except #4. It is important to let everyone know of possible disappointments that a lady may hold. If she acts in a retaliatory manner her reputation soon is exposed to the other ladies and they ignore her postings.
who insist that any client give a TER or other board handle and then screen to see only generous raters.
The good news is that the high quality gals have no fear of seeing tough scorers because they know that they will score well and when clients in the know review those scores from a tough scorer and see that she does well by him, they will be all the more interested in seeing them.
how many yo have posted. If you have a good review history and any board presence, then you shouldn't feel too much pain, unless she is the queen bee of your board.
When posting a review like this, be sure to keep it more matter-of-fact than usual. Be careful of over-generalized statements and make it about "your opinion".
Lastly, keep any correspondence from her. If she escalates, you can bring it to the attention of admin depending on how bad it is.
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