Greetings all,

Newbie here with a question about what topics to raise during the first phone call with a new provider... and they are all new to me right now.

I imagine rates/duration are necessary, but can you ask if she is FS/Greek/BBBJTC or any of the numerous other acronyms?

I'm guessing those are off-limits during the call, but thought I would "ask the experts".

Thanks.

You will most likely end up talking to a dial tone if you ask any of those questions during your phone call. That information is best found out by reading her reviews.

Thanks GaGambler,


I just don't want to step on my crank...at least not before she has the chance to.

NP

Read her website, if she has one.  That should answer any questions you were gonna ask that would get you hung up on.  If she doesn't have a website, research her reviews here, look at the reviewers and see how many reviews they have.

Bottom line:  RESEARCH, RESEARCH, RESEARCH!!!!  You will see it over and over.

Have a drink to "not stepping on your crank, before she does"

Happy hobbying,

Swim

I am newbie too.  I have same question.  Here is what I think some of guideline.  pls advice.
1. don't mention anything may be considered illegal activities.  Can we ask if the statement on review page was correct?
2. What's first couple statements should be.  What's typical statement providers/agency don't like?
3. When you reach the provider VM box, what's right VM work best?

is to get a sense of you, to make sure she feels comfortable.

Your first statement is correct, do not mention money or specific activities.

Good topics for conversation would be why you selected her.  For example, you like her pictures, or how she does her website or refer to her postings on this or other boards.  Do not mention things like: I hear you do great BBBJ.  You can mention that you liked what you read about her in her reviews, however.

Also talk about yourself a bit.  what you do for work (no specifics necessary), or hobbies, sports, family life, that sort of thing.

Don't make dumb jokes like saying you are LE,or similar stuff.  She won't think it is funny.

If you just want to leave a voice mail, keep it short and sweet.  Don't ramble.  Just say that you are interested in setting up an appointment and leave information on the best time to get a hold of you.

Also, get a VIP membership (best $20 you will ever spend) so you can read the details of the reviews.  Then you will have a good idea of the services she provides.  Always remember, YMMV.

All the advice given above is correct. Dont call or email a girl that has a website and or TER reviews and ask her the same information that is listed on her site. If she does not have a site or reviews then discreet questions regarding consideration for reserving her time are acceptable. but again do your reasearch before you contact her.

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