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gazebo1 7 Reviews 2587 reads
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So here is the situation.  I'm new to the hobby and did a lot of looking around the site to find a provider.  Ended up picking out a very well reviewed (both in # of reviews and quality) lady.  Knew from the reviews that she could be a little difficult to meet up with, but seemed like it would be worth it.  Made contact and got through what I thought was her screening process.  On day of meet up was IM'ing with her and she had more questions.  Answered all of them including verifying more info.  She then went silent.  Time for our engagement went by (and then some).  Two hours later got IM saying come on by if still around.  My schedule did not permit so we made plans for the next day.

IM'd with her beforehand to confirm and all was good.  Headed over, parked, texted and waited for more info.  And waited, and waited, and waited.  Over two hours, we traded texts and e-mails, until finally she admitted she was super nervous, thought I might be LE, but all right what the hell come over.  So I did.  Had planned on spending two hours, but now had about an hour before I had to be somewhere else.  Moment I walked in, she said she felt like an idiot as I was in person exactly who I had represented myself as in all our communications.  Now, don't get me wrong, she was very attractive and had an amazing body, but the vibe was weird from all that had gone before and time was short.  Ended up with some LFK and DATY and then I had to go.  We traded e-mails after I left and she was very apologetic about the whole situation and promised to make it up to me the next time.  

So... a couple of weeks pass and we set up another rendezvous.  Great communication this time and lots of flirting via text and e-mail.  Head to her incall, park, text, and wait.  No response.  Wait another 2 hours in my car.  Nothing.  At 11pm that night (10 hours after we were supposed to meet up), get an e-mail from her saying she was super hungover and ill and is sorry.

Like I said, almost all of her reviews mentioned that she was almost always late, but to not even tell someone your going to cancel?  If we're respectful of their time, shouldn't they also be respectful of ours?  I feel like posting a review to warn other folks that if you have a busy life, this is not the provider for you, but as i've never posted one before don't want to come out of the gate like this...

Thoughts...

rbotha1 See my TER Reviews 1251 reads
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I'm sorry this happened to you, there is no  excuse for NS/NC for an appointment. I have on a few rare occasions had to cancel but I always give as much advance notice as possible and even try to refer the client to other providers that I think they will enjoy.
Sorry, hope your next meeting goes better.

Ripped_Van_Winkle 1142 reads
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3 / 6

You have zero reviews, and she has many. While you do sound credible, she will probably scream bloody Mary and attempt to get your review removed. She sounds flaky and unpredictable as it is anyhow.
Outing her on her regional board is not a very good option either.

While you have done your homework, next time simply do not choose a provider with a flaky reputation. if you saw it in the reviews, that was an indication to pass.

Try again, and have some fun this time.

mrfisher 115 Reviews 4219 reads
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4 / 6

so if punctuality is a thing for you (It is for me.), then she isn't your cup of tea.

Many gals are very respectful of your time; those are the ones I see the most.

SaschaDoesIt See my TER Reviews 580 reads
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6 / 6

Gotta agree with Key.  Sorry that happened to you, hon.

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