Veterans,

Thanks in advance for wading through this rather long question.

Saw an ad posted on CL from a "girl next door type who likes to please and is looking for a generous guy."  There was no pic with the ad.  I responded that I was interested and offered to trade pics, but didn't include mine.  She responded with a pic.  I could see on my e-mail service that she was online at the moment, so I started to chat with her via instant message, and after a few mins sent her a pic of me.  We talked about meeting up, and only after about 30 mins of chat she asked, by the way, do you think you could be generous?  I said it depends, how generous, etc.  She responded that she's not sure, she's never done this, she has a real job, that this is sort of an experiment.  I had to run so I told her we could chat later.

The next day I saw she was on chat again so I contacted her and we started discussing what we like in bed, no talk of money.  After a while I asked her if she'd like to get anything else out of the way before we meet and she said it would be nice to get the generosity part out of the way.  I asked her if she would be ok meeting me at a hotel, but only if I tell her the neighborhood of the hotel beforehand and she would have to call me when she's close and then I would give her the exact address.  I also wouldn't give her the room number, but come to meet her in the lobby and then have her follow me up.  She is fine with all that.  I told her I was concerned about LE and she's promised me 100 times that she's not LE.  She told me she's a legal assistant for personal injury lawyers and works on contingency so some weeks there's no work and she wants a little extra cash.  When we finally discussed money, she asked me to propose an amount, saying she didn't know what was appropriate.  I proposed, she countered with something higher, I met her in the middle and she agreed.

So veterans, given that she's agreed to an outcall whose location won't be known to her until right before the meeting, is that not pretty safe for me?  How would LE get me in such a scenario?  It also seems unlikely she's LE given that we've spent a total of over 2 hours chatting online over a 3-day period.  She gave me her cell number, I sent her a text, she verified receipt.  She's a non-pro with no reviews who claims she's never done this before, but I have this feeling she's not LE.  Am I insane?

you must be new to this board,  because you would already know the answer to your questions.  i like to give out the basic advice for all newbie's  before addressing your specifics.


if you are a newbie, then........
1-PAY FOR VIP
2-SEE ONLY WELL REVIEWED PROVIDERS (3 or more reviews)
3-THAT HAVE BEEN REVIEWED BY EXPERIENCIED (3 or more reviews written) HOBBYISTS

yes you are insane.
it sounds like a cop trying to get you to offer money for sex.
if not a cop, she is probably a scammer who will relieve you of your cash without giving you any sex,

in the unlikely event she is what you think, a first time provider,   are you in the position to take one for the team and give her that first review?   will your marriage, job, surive the scandal of arrest?   have you done this enough that you have developed the instincts to sense danger and avoid it?

there are experienced hobbyists that can TOFTT, screen new providers for us ....many thanks to those that TOFTT.
because of my job i am unable to TOFTT, and after 4 years, dozens of encounters and 13 reviews, i dont feel i have the keenly honed instincts for avoiding trouble.   perhaps your situation is different.


-- Modified on 5/28/2011 2:27:52 AM

Thanks for hitting me over the head.  Had a momentary lapse of reason there.  I liked the idea of a non-pro, and that clouded my judgment.  Again, thank you!

You also stated that you now have her cell phone... try Googling it to see if anything comes up... like possibly old ads, old reviews, etc... it's not foolproof, as it might be a new number, but there's always the possibility you might hit on something...