When hosting at a hotel, is it more discrete to meet the hobbyist out side and let him up the side door. (Assuming the place your in doesn't have cameras in the halls) or, staying in the room, and having him just come up and knock? (And walk past front desk)
Please give your opinions on which of these options is better. I know the BEST option is a place so busy (hopefully with a public restaurant) that either way would never be noticeable, but please humor me. And choose from the 2 options above. I appreciate your opinions!
Its always smart to stay in the room and not meet someone in the lobby... That being said, the front desk people always have an idea as to whats going on. So stay as discreet as possible and don't give the other patrons any reason to complain.... A twenty some yr old girl checks into hotel and a guy after guy goes in the same room..Only if you are seeing 2-3 guys a day...You don't think the guys on front desk can tell? LOL....
Especially letting someone in the side door. It looks suspicious as hell. If anyone suggested I do it, it would be grounds for cancellation. There is nothing wrong with having someone walk by the front desk, although the ideal hotel will offer access to the elevator banks without having him walk by the desk. Guys just need to have enough self-confidence to walk through the lobby like they belong there. I've never been questioned. Also, it's wise to change hotels every day. I know one gal who'll only see one guy in any given room, thought that's extreme.
Just not my way of doing things. I am not going to get all dressed in regular clothes after paying for a hotel room where I can simply relax and be in lingerie when he arrives, to meet him in the damn lobby. If he is the ONLY person you are seeing at that stay, no problem, but I would never be seen with more than one guy, per stay, at the same hotel.
Meeting and going up the side stairway is better than meeting in the lobby, but I prefer to walk through the front doors alone like I own the place and belong there. I might leave through a side door if its closer to where I am parked or again, march right out the front with out a care in the world.
Hotels meetings aren't for me. I see episodes of COPS and see the guys getting arrested. If you had to meet at a Hotel, for me it's best to meet at the Bar or Restaurant. So this way when you go past the Front Desk, it looks like you're a couple going to the Room.
If she has multiple clients a day, and she is constantly going up and down meeting different guys - its even more painfully obvious. Especially to the eye in the sky. Usually they turn a blind eye, but less likely if the guy just goes to the room.
I would say find a hotel where the front desk is not directly in front of the entryway and the elevators are on the opposite side of the front desk. Usually the front desk people are too busy to look over to see who is coming and going unless they are right in front of them. And for pete's sake, don't do exterior door motels where everybody can see who is coming in and out of the rooms
Best solution. I prefer to come up to the room on my own. The only time I have a lady meet me is when a key card is needed to get upstairs. I am usually dressed in business attire, with a briefcase, so I typically don't attract attention beyond a casual acknowledgement from the hotel staff.
I am fairly new to this so i have another question regarding meeting client directly in the room: Some hotels require keycards to use the elevators. How does the client go to the room without the keycard?
As long as the guy knows where the elevators are and comes in acting like he belongs there, he should have no problem. I have seen providers in hotels many times. If he is not familiar with the hotel, he should ask you where the elevators are, so he doesn't walk in looking like he is lost. It's all in appearance.
If I am all dolled up & feeling sexy I do not want to leave my suite to come grab my date. If a key is required I will leave 1 at the front desk for my fella because I am truly low volume & prefer to only entertain 1 lucky gent.
Free advice for new gals who have pimps, boyfriends, or management: Many of my clients will arrive at the hotel 10 to 15 minutes early to surveillance. I hear all the time what provider has a daddy because they noticed him sticking out, like a fish out of water. Not cool.
Wouldn't someone have to prove that something illegal has actually happened behind closed doors? It seems to me that being an escort is legal (phone books are pretty mainstream and they take the ads like there is no tomorrow); escorts are allowed to get paid for their time (it's part of the being legal thing); consenting adults can do what consenting adults want to do so long as there is no public lewdness- it can be behind closed doors in a hotel, in their home, or in a winnebago. If something looks suspicious that is simply suspicion. Of course, no one wants to create suspicion just because it feels kind of sketchy, but in fact if no one can prove any laws have been broken then no harm/no foul. Isn't that right?
I have never actually read the fine print on what I sign when checking into a hotel, but I don't know that having multiple visitors to one's room on the surface is against house rules - disturbing other guests could be a problem and perhaps reason for eviction, but what if a guest is simply a little uninhibited and wants to get reacquainted with every guy she knew in her senior class for free, there is no law I know of that prohibits that -- so without proof, a hotel guest is simply maximizing the enjoyment of their $200+ room.
If she has multiple clients a day, and she is constantly going up and down meeting different guys - its even more painfully obvious. Especially to the eye in the sky. Usually they turn a blind eye, but less likely if the guy just goes to the room.
I would say find a hotel where the front desk is not directly in front of the entryway and the elevators are on the opposite side of the front desk. Usually the front desk people are too busy to look over to see who is coming and going unless they are right in front of them.
And for pete's sake, don't do exterior door motels where everybody can see who is coming in and out of the rooms.
Definitely walking in with confidence, as if you own the place and are already checked in, is best. Sometimes I'll even ask the girl where the elevators are in relation to the front door, so I don't have to walk in and look around. But as I said in another thread, hotel staff really, really, really don't care. They know prostitution happens in their rooms. But they don't care unless it causes OTHER problems. If the people next door complain about the noise, sure. If the clients are selling drugs in the parking lot on their way in, sure. If the girl is so busy that there's 10 guys hanging around in the lobby waiting their turn, sure. But a discreet provider who sees 2-4 clients per day isn't normally going to attract ANY unwanted attention from hotel staff. They simply don't care
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