I have written many a review. A lady I saw recently continually during our time together referred to herself In a derogatory manner. Referring to herself as a whore and a slut, her words not mine. She also portrays this and says the same things in her adult movies as she is a xxx adult star. I asked her if this would be okay to say in her review. She said yes, and hoped I would put it in the review. However my review was not approved and I was asked to resubmit. To resubmit not using derogatory words directed at/about a provider. I understand if I was slamming a provider, it would be totally inexcusable. I was not, as a matter of fact I beyond highly praised her. I do not understand why at times the whole truth can not be told. We can talk about some of the most raunchy acts during a session and that gets approved in a review. But if a provider talks very dirty and refers to herself in ways unimaginable that cant be approved? What if TER is to contact the provider and says "Hey this was said" Are you okay with this? I resubmitted my review in the exact manner.... However I excluded the words she called herself. I explained In review that I used a for the words she used to call herself. I really feel it takes away from the whole review that I had to edit it and have my fellow hobbyist guess at things when I used a .

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TERAdmin already replied and that's final, but I can think of a couple of other reasons not to include certain things in a review.  

Number one is "YMMV", especially with more borderline or more extreme comments.  She is trying to give you the best time possible, wants to get you off and maybe she "reads" you (well, I don't mean you, personally, grompyd) as a "hot, slutty verbal stimulation" type and she feels comfortable saying things to you that she might not use with someone else (e.g., maybe with someone who was already OVERstimulated!).  

Lots of ambiguity here because TER would probably allow lots of other YMMV stuff that could be equally confusing:

"She told me to grab the back of her head and push hard so she could DT me." So the next guy expects the same but gets shut out.  Could be "your mileage, or inch-age, may vary", by 4 inches: the 6 inch guy gets the hard core DT invite but the 10 inch guy is asked to go slow.  "I wanted DT like the other reviewer described but she said I was too big."

I forget the other reasons I had in mind.

I'm not sure.  TER has their rules, I guess

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Yes, my clients have also had this problem.. Seems to me, administration has always been pretty strict on content//words that are deemed ""Ok"" to use..

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the reviewer just made mention of the fact that the provider enjoys having the client refer to her by derogatory language without actually mentioning the specific derogatory language in question?

It would seem that a prospective client should be able to ascertain this attribute before deciding whether or not this is the right gal for him.

By the way, kudos to this new practice of coming right out and explaining TER Administration's take on various controversies that come up.  The more communication the better.

Thanks TER admin and all for the input. impposter I fully agree with that TER has spoken and it is final. I added the instead of the actual words and the review posted. True ymmv may vary, of course that's is just a gimmee with any provider.  

mrfisher Here is part of your response to my post.

"the reviewer just made mention of the fact that the provider enjoys having the client refer to her by derogatory language without actually mentioning the specific derogatory language in question?"

To clarify I did not put in review nor would I ever refer to a provider in a derogatory manner in a review. Would I use words she wanted me to call her in session,sure would. However I would not put that in a review, as I know that would be flagged and the review would not post. What I attempted to put in review is the words she called herself. It was raunchy and surprisingly unexpected and enjoyable. Had no clue she talked like that in her sessions, some of her movies yes I did know, just did not expect it in person. Either way I changed the words to and the review posted. It is my latest review, so If anyone would like to read it, you can guess what the words she referred to herself as.  

Mia Carter, I sent you a pm, as I see we are in the same area.

Thanks all appreciate the input. Thought the newbie board would be the best place to post the original post, as I have been told TER admin would more than likely address it and clarify.