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Yea, I saw a guy a couple of weeks ago that told me he was a virgin after I arrived....
klifted310 2666 reads
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I live in Los Angeles and have decided to finally see an escort in the near future since I feel like I've held onto my virginity for far too long, being 25 years old... I am just worried that once I meet the escort in person and get "comfortable" and tell her I'm a virgin that she will find it uncomfortable or make me leave. Is something like this likely to happen? Or do they really not care?

Also I thought I should mention that I'm a virgin mostly due to having anxiety issues. I'm not a mutant or anything. I actually did quite a lot of modeling in college and am (sometimes negatively lol) described as a "pretty boy". It's just whenever I've had opportunities with women I would completely cut them off once I got too close to them or felt they were coming onto me. I am just tired of being a nervous coward and I badly want to feel a woman's physical & emotional touch.

Lastly, does size really matter that much and would a lady laugh at me if I am below average? I am average in length (6 inches) but my girth is only 4 inches, and apparently the average for males is nearly 5 inches. So I am a bit on the thin side. I am just worried that she will not even feel anything.

swimtrekr 58 Reviews 710 reads
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Many providers will not see guys your age.  VIP membership here will let you search for gals that will see younger guys.  BTW, size is not a problem either, just your age.

Swim

HooktardGold 612 reads
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Is her vagina a hallway? Anyone who can't feel a d(ck that size, needs some kegels. I prefer men under six inches with below average girth, but what do I know. I am just a former hooker with a shallow vagina.

I would NEVER see a virgin though, so just don't tell them that. They will just think you're nervous because this is your first time with a provider, not overall. It's really not our business how many times you have had sex.

natashalynne See my TER Reviews 605 reads
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He had only kissed one girl ever, and had never had a relationship last longer than a month.  It was pretty awkward, and to be honest, I probably would not have agreed to see him if he had told me ahead of time.

He's not a virgin anymore, but it was one of the most emotionally stressful appointments I've ever had.  I hope to never repeat it.

QueenBia See my TER Reviews 529 reads
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The best part about this business is their is someone for everyone!

Manny518 1 Reviews 598 reads
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I can't speak to whether the escort you go to will have an issue with you being a virigin, but I can say that mine definitely did not. I lost my virginity last week when I went to see this escort in Atlanta. She is 30 and I am 22. The only thing that she said that kind of annoyed me was that I was young enough to be her sons friend lol, which is of course false but I'm pretty sure she was kidding anyway. From my one experience, I got that escorts usually see middle-aged men, so you're definitely younger than their regular clientele, but I can't imagine me and you are the only guys in their 20's that have visited an escort. Especially to lose their virginity.
If you feel anxious about her reaction, just be honest when your setting up the appointment.
Most likely, she'll be fine with it, might even try harder to make it an awesome experience for you.

-Manny

Charlotteofvegas See my TER Reviews 721 reads
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I have met with plenty of young Gentlemen, in their twenties, and a few virgins.
 I am happy they picked me to share that first experience with them!
It is a big decision, take your time to pick the right lady ;-)  

 
Char x

fingerlicking00d 28 Reviews 574 reads
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You are letting your anxiety get the best of you. Most escorts are prepared to encounter all types of clients. The most important advice I can give you is do your research. Look for quality and not value.

Yes age can be a problem but I believe it's more of a regional issue. If you live in LA, I do not think your age will be a problem as long as you act discreetly and most importantly treat others with respect.  

On your initial contact, try to be up front with your situation. This is a sign of respect to whoever you talk to and will probably get you the replies you're looking for. Also don't worry about your penis size. You're not small. It's probably the last thing you should be worrying about.

talking89 662 reads
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I myself personally lost my virginity to a provider. I didn't say anything, because I think escorts are hesitant to seeing clients with that issue. As for size I'm not big or anything. I haven't measured, because it seems weird to me, but the provider I saw said it was " Average " I think I could have gotten bigger I just was nervous and am still nervous around women. The provider said size really doesn't matter to women...but that could vary. I'm perfectly happy with my size that I am...just more concerned about the appearance, IE hair. I like to keep it well painted and bare, though always get bad razor burn when I complete shave all the hair off everywhere. I'm not sure if losing your virginty to an escort will be the right path for you. I kind of wish I could have got to know someone a little while first before it happened. I think now I'm stuck with seeing providers and am not able to do traditional dating. It kind of just morphee into that after I began seeing escorts. Wish you the best of luck.

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