I've been having a hard time finding providers lately because they all want 2 references.  I' ve never had a provider "whitelist" me, and now I feel blacklisted!

Any advice on finding providers who a) don't need 2 references and b) would then BECOME one of my 2 references.

Thanks for any advice!

...you just have to look.Even on verification sites you can find where there are providers who advertise as such, newbie friendly.  Some don't require any references at all.  Do a search on sites like P411, etc or even here on this site for girls who don't require two references.

There are some providers who do not require references.  If you are on Date Check, they have an option where you can specifically search for this criteria, it says "will entertain all members."  You might have to see a provider who isn't your first choice before you can get to the one you really want.  I don't know the exact % of those who require reference, but I can assure you that there are some who don't.

It's unfortunate, but this is pretty much the way the entire world works.  Same thing with employment, access to credit, etc...  Regardless of whether I agree with this or not, I doubt it will change any time soon.  Sad thing is, previous history isn't always a reliable indicator of future experience.  But hey, people are going to do what they want to do.  If anything, the providers who are willing to take the "risk" and trust someone, will get more respect and appreciation for helping that new individual out.

It's more like a Hooker's Seal of Approval.  It can help, but many providers don't look at whitelistings.  Sounds like you need to join either P411 or Date-Check.  Then search for "Newbie Friendly" providers who don't require any OKs.  See a couple of them and, afterwards, PM them for an OK.  With two OKs almost everyone will see you.  Also, do more reviews.  Gals who screen can then check and see who you've been with.
Right now you've done two reviews and one is gone (presumably, she's been delisted), so you need to build up your creds that way, too.  Seek out girls who are listed here.
And, yes, it's a bit of a "chicken and egg" deal, but that's just the way it is.  Everyone has to deal with it at first.