first things first...

First you need to be reviewed.

If someone has written a review of you, go to that page while you are signed it, and there will be a button that says something like "Link to this Review".

Once you have three reviews on your profile, you can request LIMITED Vip for Providers... Do that by sending a PM through your profile to Admin.

If you get approved for limited VIP, then you will have the ability to read your own reviews, and send PM's.

OR You can get paid VIP, which I have. It is an awesome tool for providers, and you would be able to see all reviews, and have instant access to PM. HIGHLY RECOMMEND this!

But in any case, you MAY be able to White List without VIP. Just go into your Account Manager link at the VERY top of the screen. Then click on "My Referrals". There is a link there to add someone to your White List.