I am a newbie with no references but I have finally been able to make an appointment for tomorrow, Im so excited. I was wondering how do I get white listed or w.e and how do I write reviews so people can know i have references? Is it ok to talk to the provider about this? is it ok to ask her about prices in the near future as well after? I am doing a meet and greet with this provider for screening and I was also wondering has anyone else had to do this and what was it like? when did u make donation? PM if necessary

at the end of the date, since I assume she is a TER member, simply ask if she would be willing to give you a whitelist referral.  Don't know what you mean by w.e.  

It is NOT ok to ask about prices for future visits, most providers' donations are non-negotiable.  If you are looking for a reduced rate for future visits, she will probably not see you again if you start asking about this.  

To write a review, you click on the 'Reviews' button, then go to 'submit a review' and follow the directions.  It's kinda tedious, but that's how it goes.

Never did a one on one meet and greet.  Are you paying for her time just to have a drink?  Remember, time is money for these ladies, and most will expect to be paid for their time, whether you are just having a drink or actually in the bedroom.

Many providers have instructions on their websites on how to deliver the donation.  If she does not, just leave it in an obvious, visible place shortly after you arrive at her incall.  

Swim

A meet and greet as part of screening should always be the suggestion of the provider. Be aware that many girls will not do this.

I did one recently with a Preferred411 member who passed screening on their site but had no okays and no references. This was his first time.

I didn't feel comfortable meeting him at his hotel room (in a city notorious for entrapment), so I suggested meeting elsewhere prior to the date.

I don't charge for the additional time if it's in lieu of a reference, but it must be immediately prior to the date (not on a different day) and just takes the place of chatting at the beginning of the session in the hotel room. I would never agree to this so the guy can "decide" if he wants a session. It's just an extra precaution if traditional screening isn't possible but you have good reason to believe the guy is legit.

In situations like this, I like to ask at the last minute for different extra documentation (it's never the same thing) that would be difficult to fake last minute. He brought what I requested with him and had it at the bar where we met. I looked it over while we chatted over drinks.

You DON'T bring your payment with you or try to hand it to her at that time. Never try to hand her money prior to the session. Wait until you both are in the room alone and then set it down somewhere within her eyesight if it's incall. If it's outcall, just leave it out before you go meet her so it's there when she gets there.

DON'T talk about hobbying in any way, shape or form within earshot of other people. Just think of it like an Internet date and you are meeting in a public place before you "hook up."

I"m not going to pay a lady for extra time just to have a drink, and I don't think, from what I have read, most providers would do it off the clock anyway.  Angelique, if you do the drink m n g off the clock, you are, IMHO, in the vast minority.  Ladies correct me if I'm wrong.

Swim

When I say I'm not a "clock watcher," I really mean it. If I get booked for "an hour and a half," that's what I expect to get paid for regardless of how much over things go because of what I want to add to the visit so I can feel more comfortable (like chatting at length at the start of a session).  So I could care less how long we spend hanging out at a bar or coffee place if I chose to take my sweet time chatting and breaking the ice. That's on me if what I want to do makes the time go over.

So, if he agrees to meet her for a drink prior to a one hour appointment AT HER REQUEST, I would think that would just all get rolled together into the time agreed for the appointment in my opinion... unless the meeting place is two minutes away and she talks for only one minute. He can't be expected to be paying for the time to drive back to the private location on top of the meet and greet! That's not fair to him if it's her request.

Most of this "by the clock" stuff has to do with incall where the provider has other appointments prebooked back to back. You have to respect her time and schedule and stick to the time agreed. A guy should never be doing anything to add time to the clock without feeling obligated to pay extra (like being the one to ask to meet for drinks prior to the session).

I'm just much more relaxed about time than many providers because I don't book back to back appointments. I like to have fun! And having a drink and getting to know someone makes the date more fun! I'm not going to "minute pinch" about it. Others aren't going to see it that way, I do understand.

But I do think if he agrees to pay for an hour... that's all he should pay for regardless if the meet and greet she requested causes the actual time to go over.

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I've been in this long enough therefore I'm well prepared for random questions as to not incriminate me and readily prepared to kick his ass if need be.

Example:
Client: "What's your rate"
Provider: "Sweetie, If you have to ask you can't afford it"
That had always worked for me....you'll be surprised at how fast they remember your rates!
Asking for my rates not only incriminates me but it's an attempt to haggle my rates....trust me, kitty can hold a grudge and  not as good to him once he plays me for dumb!

Geeez, not that I'm booking back to back and not that I'm a clock watcher, but wow I have other things to do with my personal  life than spending all that time hanging out chatting and having drinks!  

That is truly minority behaviour and totally OUT of the norm to require the gent meet you in a public place first.  
That is way too much time wasting for me AND the gentleman.

Arriving to meet is "intent."  So if your thinking a public meeting is protecting you from LE, no It's not going to.