I am looking to start the hobby and wondering on my first.  I am 47 and have been married, but sex is non existent.   Not having a lot of experience the last few years, but interested in a trying a little on the wild side.  I am just wondering if I should jump in with both feet or ease in slowly?  

I'm not much to ease my way into anything.  Find what you like and go for it.

I still remember the first lady I spent time with. Pretty much the same type I still go after.

At age 70 after much questioning myself, pondering what to do, finally jumped in with both feet & it has been a wonderful 3 month ride. GO FOR IT MAN.

Just kidding.

What's your definition here of jumping in versus going slowly? Would slowly be starting in an AMP getting hand jobs or starting with agency versus independents or a short, pure sex versus GFE or PSE?

I know my first was  only good because the provider had a lot of experience, including being newbie friendly, so was able to walk me through the event and help get the nerves under control. You've got a lot going though your mind -- will I get busted, will I get ripped off, will someone see me, will I measure up to all the other clients (don't even worry about that one), will I get a disease....

Best advise is probably start with what makes your the most comfortable.

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Well yes in a sense.  I have a couple of girls I'm looking at and trying to decide.  One looks breathtaking, but only does tantra massage, reviews sound like something I would very much enjoy.   Another is about my age and a little conservative with her menu.   Then there is a third that I am very interested in, but also a little scared.  Reviews say she is amazing but also willing to go more BDSM than I am ready for.  I think in the end, I'll see all three, but just don't know which order.   Only number 3 does Greek, which I'm interested in, but haven't don't yet.  

I jumped in with both feet, so to speak, about a year and a half ago. I think I get where you're coming from.

Whatever experience you go for, I would look at someone who advertises themselves as newbie friendly, since they might understand your jitters and be able to put you at ease. If someone offers a lot of BDSM activities, you don't have to take advantage of the full menu - yet.  
Have fun exploring!

your feet wet or maybe a well-reviewed MILF to pop your hobby cherry.

Only way to find out what you like and what you're up for is to do it! Yes, try all three if you can swing it and enjoy yourself. It might take some time to find your groove but it will all be good experience and help you define your likes/dislikes.

It's a grand experiment.