Hello!

Some, not all, but many providers do INSIST on knowing your full legal name as part of their screening. It is up to you whether or not you feel comfortable giving out this information, and of course it is up to her if she decides NOT to see you if you refuse.

There are several sides to this debate, my advice to you is to only give out the information that YOU feel comfortable giving, but keep in mind that some women will not see you without it.

That way she has access to a wider market of pre-verified clients, and you get to keep your full name just between you and P411.

....P411 as a sole means of verification; it's just an extra layer of security for many ladies.

Is when I visit a city and have been screened by a provider through p411 and TER and have exchanged multiple emails and arranged on an appointment.  So far so good.  Then the day of the appointment either she or I will call to confirm.  So far so good again.  What really pisses me off is when they call about five minutes before the appointment and say "I'm close, just give me your room number and full name and I'll be right up".  

I feel your pain.  Some providers forget that safety/security is a 2-way thing.  Hobbyists also need to feel safe to schedule a visit.  In a perfect world, our info will be shredded and discarded upon verification, but the world is not perfect.  Sure, you can argue that since providers are doing this for a living, they won't do anything like that which will affect their business.  However, what about a few years from now when her "time" is over?  When one is desperate enough, blackmailing is the obvious choice.

In my early days, there was a well-reviewed lady I really wanted to see.  I emailed my info (no last name), D-C, a few recent references for her to pick from, etc. We spoke on the phone a couple of times.  She was touring in Boston and I reserved several days in advance.  I traveled quite a distance to get to her place and, as instructed, call when I'm close.  NOW!, only just now, on the phone, does she start asking for additional info: full name, employer, ... favorite color and zodiac sign.  It got to be too much and I protested that she told me that everything was OK as of several days ago.  

...being asked to see my room key, or the name of the guest I am visiting.  I highly doubt that security would accept a first name only.

I went to an hotel outcall years ago, with only the guy's first  name and a room number. When I got there, there was no such room. I'd been had.

Oh ya and that happens how often? Like never?

I highly doubt that security would accept BeautywithBrains or Kelly.

Depending on the time of night it can actually happen alot. The only way i myself ask for your full legal name is if you don't have references, or are staying n a hotel that i know keycards. If your not willing to give that info and your not willing to meet me outside then its not wroth the trouble. I always listen to my gut not my pockets.  

usually at the Hard Rock Hotel, where casino security is much tighter than normal.  

and I would love to hear the answer from either "Kelly" or "Tabu" since they think it is so important for them to know before heading upstairs for an appointment. After all "what's good for the goose...."

Or should I anticipate a double standard here?