hey my name is prissy.........im new to ter too...im so lost....its so much on this site.....but because i have a basic membership theirs alot of stuff i cant do either lol..if u wanna talk  u can call me  414 393 8484

and improve your skills and craft.

Dingalingus is a very respected reviewer, and his review rings true.  I'm not quite sure what parts you claim are inaccurate, but don't try to fix things by blaming.  Instead look into the things that you could have done better.

Half the fun experience for a guy is being made to feel special and welcomed.  If you can manage to do this, you will improve your scores even if you don't provide those things that would raise your score like kissing and giving BBBJs.

You seem willing and quite sincere so please take this the right way as a challenge to do better.

I wish you all the best.

directly from TER's reviews section:

7.In order to keep our performance ratings consistent, we set up the following system: An escort provider is only eligible to earn up to a 7, unless she is willing to perform one or some of the following during a session: Kisses With Tongue, Bare-Back Blow Job, Really Bi, and Anal Sex. For each of these services that are offered, her potential max score is raised by one point, with 10 as an absolute maximum.

As you can see, since you preferences are CBJ and no kissing, your "performance" score can only be so high, perhaps an 8.

As pointed out, Dingalingus has a long history of honest reviews, and is more than willing to score favorably when warranted.  Perhaps your score is a result of some disappointment on his part from expectations that were different that your comfort level.  Having been conditioned, to some degree, to a more liberal set of "menu items", it might have been a little bit of a surprise for him to hear of your various boundaries.

I want to be clear: I'm not suggesting AT ALL that you should go outside your comfort zone.  But now you're more aware of how the ratings are established and the effect they have on your personal scores.

This was a great place to ask this question.  Enjoy!

I say this because in one of his replies he said the ladies 'seem' to be happy to see him. They're always happy to see him. I've talked with many ladies that he's met and it was unanimous that they would see him again and again and again because he's a gentleman, respects the lady, and is just an all-around perfect hobbyist.

Not to mention he's a freak, if you know what I mean(!), but I digress....

But in any case, both mrfisher and inicky are friends of mine and I respect their opinions. You should too. They are seasoned hobbyists, fine human beings, and you could learn a lot from what they say.

Your menu, or lack of, does have an impact on your scores. I saw your ad, and you're a good looking lady, no doubt. But because you don't do BBBJ and no kissing IS going to affect your scores. Sorry, but that's a fact.

You could look like Angelina Jolie, but if you don't do certain things that I like, I won't see you.

Not to say I haven't seen ladies that didn't do this or that, I have. But I won't anymore because after a while you expect certain things. And especially when you hand over money, you want what you pay for. Know what I mean?

Sorry if I sound harsh, but I'm not used to doling out advice. I'm more prone to asking for it, which the above gentlemen and our mod can attest to.

Just do what you're comfortable with, improve on them, and I'm sure you'll be just fine.

I wouldn't beat yourself up over the review.  That you still got an 8 for appearance in spite of the 5 (the two scores are subjective and often influence each other) tells me you're pretty hot, and the review itself makes it clear that the menu was the major factor for performance, not your attitude (and I, too, am not advocating for you to change your menu beyond your comfort zone).  I think maintaining a friendly board presence on TER will help: probably a lot of guys have already checked out your ad because of your post and seen how attractive you are.  Good luck growing your business.

..."report a problem" at the top of your profile. For example, you can say that you are not African-American and you don't have a B cup, as you pointed out in a post in this thread.

Regarding offering services: While you can't mention specific services in your ad, you can do two things. In your ad, the phrase "safety girl" implies that everything is covered. Also, don't use GFE. While the definition of GFE is often disputed, it's use, with your current services, will cause more "harm" (not literal) than good.

Also, you can adjust all the services in your profile by submitting a problem report to TER (i.e. if DATY is allowed, etc). You can also check the ethnicity choices to see if something is more accurate. Mostly, folks don't care about this. Mostly the guys want to know if the photos are accurate/representative.

Finally, the review text is often as important as the score. More experienced hobbyists do not go just by scores, especially the occasional low score, or if the scores start low and improve. The review sounds fairly positive to me, and it is fairly clear that the issue for ding was about your services (not) offered as opposed to you personally. Many guys also prefer everything covered and will often seek out "safety girls".

BTW, this is a tough thing to read your own reviews as it isn't about you personally. You need a bit of a thick skin here.

Finally, when coming here to ask questions, in the case of something subjective, ask an open question and try not to blame (we all make that mistake once in a while) and you'll generally get good and respectful answers. If you come and make dramatic claims of being dissed, etc... well, you'll get that back to  - LOL

Good luck.