As it is about the time you're spending with the lady.  You have to really enjoy your time with her - every facet of it, not just the sexual stuff - to really enjoy an overnight.

Someone correct me if I'm wrong but at least that's how I'd approach it (full disclosure, I've never had an overnight).

The standard is that there is no standard.  I would not recommend an overnight with a girl you have not scene and developed some chemistry with.  You will not be boinking all night long so it's best to spend the time with a gal who's company you enjoy.
Once you select a lady you want to talk to her about the rate and your expectations for the night.

Here's a tip, thinking of a real live breathing human being as a "buffet" is really not the approach you want to pursue here.  There is no such thing as unlimited pops. If all you are interested in is screwing all night you are probably better off lining up a bunch of girls in two hour intervals...

Every provider's idea of how long an overnight lasts will be different as will their expectations for sleep and how many times they are going to let you have your way with them. Don't assume anything. Get the facts from the lady that you want to book with.

because, most likely, it will not be all about "pops" (although those are very nice) and, as Rina mentioned, there's usually other activities involved (dinner, drinks, rest, etc...) and if there's no chemistry, it may turn into a very looong night.

My best advice would be to discuss your plans for the night with the provider, so that there's no misunderstandings and, in the end, you are both happy with the outcome.

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That's a great length. You have time to f**k your head off but inevitably you'll also have time to meet the lady and chat and snuggle.

All the other comments above are on point – you really need to like the person – not just her mouth or her cunt – if you're going to do an overnight. And most providers won't do one with someone they don't know. Too creepy.

Re: I agree start out with a 2hr meeting..

You can learn alot from spending 2 hrs with a provider, if you want to do longer, if she really takes care of your needs, her personality, etc...Then you should decide if you want an overnite.
Jay

Sure you can get in at least two, and often three rounds, but as you point out, you could achieve that more inexpensively by scheduling three different providers for a one (or even half) hour appointment.

I am at the point where I enjoy the company, and the chance to go out and dine, maybe see a movie or play or, if a daytime excursion, see a museum or sightsee.

Then there is the cuddling part which I also enjoy, and the gift of not having to worry about the clock.

You have to decided what is most important to you.

If you are a 15 minute guy, I don't think you will appreciate an overnight.

Like other guys have said: Go with a 2 hour date next.

Are overnights worth it? Yes, with the right lady (and at the right price). I don't expect an all night marathon. A lot of time of just enjoying each other's company. Having a sexy warm body to hold while you sleep. Waking up, and seeing her au natural. lol

However, if you just like to bang her, and quickly loose interest in her, then overnight dates are not for you.

Maybe put it this way: 15 min dates are all about you. Overnight dates, you have to be able to enjoy her.

As has been said above make sure you choose a lady whom you have seen before (preferable many times) and that the two of you enjoy each others company while not engaged in festivities. So much of the overnight experience is about the time spent with the lady during the "down" time.

Overnights are NOT a buffet.  I'd expect GFE, sleep time, meals & snacks a couple of rounds, maybe a wake up if we're lucky.
This is not to be undertaken lightly.  I'd have had successful one & 2 hour dates with the lady first...
skb

If you are accustomed to 15 minute dates, I don't think an overnight is for you.  Most quality ladies do not offer anything less than a 1 hr. experience.  

When you are ready to enjoy a GFE lady for an evening of dining, show, walk on the beach, or whatever, then spend at least one 2-hr. date with her to be sure the chemistry is there.

No, it will not be a 12-hr. fu*kfest.  Think of it as a date.

You could not give me enough money to stay overnight with anyone I don't trust or enjoy snuggling with.

I have done many 3 day trips and a few 7 day with no problems. Rates are always lower with extended travel and GFE is a must. To be with someone that long you must enjoy their company.

I think your idea of a buffet of sensual delights all night long may not work in your favor. Few ladies will be up for that challenge at a discounted rate and you might disappoint yourself. There is a point where you will tire.

I agree with those who said to do a 2hr date and if you like how things are going ask her to stay longer...Just be sure you brought extra money with you to cover extra time

Kisses Haley

Thank you all for the feedback. This helped me a lot greatly. I think next time I will try going for a longer round like 1 hour or 2 hours. You all probably saved me a lot of money and headache too.