Keep in mind I have some kind of anxiety or something.  Whatever it is, I'm gonna need more time.

Would 2hrs be good?  It seems kind of long.....  1hr seemed kind of short.  I'm not sure....  I'm gonna need time just to warm up and be comfortable.  I don't want to feel comfortable and then realize, geez how much time just past???

Many gents that I see book 2hr for the first meeting it is a way to get comfortable and not have to worry so much about time.You could also look to see if any providers you are interested in offer 90min appts.
Some prefer an hour some prefer multi-hours you would be surprised how fast an hour can go by.
Good luck to you!

i have found 90 minutes to be perfect for me..you get to explore each other and try every position possible without seeming to be rushed..it depend also if you are a one-pop guy or multiple pop guy..schedule a longer session if you envision popping more than once..make sure she allows msog before you do..just relax..they know how to cater to your individual needs..they have seen it all..they adjust to any situation they encounter..

Every hobbyists is different. Read the boards and you'll see hobbyists prefer anywhere from 15 quickies to overnights. You might pick a time and mention to the escort if she has more time available if you need it. Make sure to bring a donation amount that covers the projected overtime.  I prefer an hour on a first date, but I've done 90 minutes and 2 hours on a first date. Besides your "issues" you'll never know who you'll connect with the escort, so sometimes 2 hrs.  goes by in a blink of an eye, other times it can excruciating long. Good luck!

Everybody is different and we can't tell you what will work for you. We can only say what works for us. For some guys 15 minutes is plenty. For some, one hour is not enough. For me, one hour is usually too short and I normally book 2 hours for a first date (sometimes 90 minutes). For follow up dates I sometimes book even longer. (3, 4, all day, etc.) You will have to figure out what works for you. Good luck.

Eventually I cut it to one.
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Start with 90 min
if  do not know the provider yet
We never know how things goes....
IF u really liked her  and need more time
ASK polite
I want extend  the date for 2 hours
Do u have time ?
My suggestion never book more then 3 hours or overnigth with someone you dont know yet
Long hours date has to have chemistry
just my opinion
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only you  can determine that.  There are lots factors to consider.  Personally, I have only done 1 hr dates.  If you don't click with her, it's a waste of $ to pay for more, but that's me.  You can hear arguments for hour, hour and half, two hours, and so on, but in the end, it's your decision.

If you have anxiety concerns, then a date of 90 min would prob be your best bet.  If I'm typical of hobbyists, I an  always nervous going to a date with a provider I have never seen before, so that is nothing to be worried about.  I'm also a little on edge seeing someone I have already seen, if it has been a while since I have seen her.

Just relax, enjoy her company and have fun.

Swim

putting their packages together. This is my number one seller in addition to dinner dates. It allows you the freedom to actually talk for a good 20-30 minutes and still get a full hour of bcd time. With an hour, you can't do much talking and expect to get 2 pops without feeling rushed. Even if you don't see a rate for an hour and a half, that does not mean she won't negotiate a rate for you if you simply ask. That's how I came to include one when I tour.