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clarice797 2063 reads
posted
1 / 11

Would love to hear advice from you, so I may give red carpet service.

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 624 reads
posted
2 / 11

Are you looking to start off as a GFE provider, meaning Girlfriend Experience? Or, FBSM meaning full body sensual massage, and usually a happy ending that varies? Domination, Fetishes, the list goes on. Think about what you are comfortable doing, first, then decide on a rate that is worth it for you to do certain things, and for your time. I assume you have not placed ads, or have a website yet? All of these things come after, but to start, you will need some good photos...at least 4 or 5 full body shots. No need to show your face, if you have something to lose.

CaitlynKennedy See my TER Reviews 631 reads
posted
3 / 11

to figure out what you will or wont do, and then work on making those the best services you can!

trust me, we all have bad days, and we do not always love every man we see~  

for me, I just try to be as real as I can, and plus i truly love sex lol

-- Modified on 6/7/2013 11:17:23 AM

swimtrekr 59 Reviews 556 reads
posted
4 / 11

First of all, you need to correct the link, it wants us to log into yahoo as you, don't think you want that.  I'd suggest you read the self help center secondly.  The previous posters gave you some good ideas as well.  If you have questions, this is the forum to ask them, so feel free to do so.

Swim

harborview 10 Reviews 462 reads
posted
5 / 11

I hope that 797 does not mean your birthday is 7/97...   Your provider persona should be separate from the rest of your life.  Best time to start is before you start.

There is a lot of info on the self help link, (by the life ring).  

You'll need a separate business phone...   which you shut off when you are not working.  And doesn't trace back to you.  You can register track phones & similar without a real name or address & don't link to your email.  Pay cash, buy minutes with cash.  Your conversations will be short.
You should have a business (free) email which is not linked to your regular email.  

I am glad that you want to provide "Red Carpet" service...   First off be honest, with yourself & with clients.  
Your pictures must really be you.  No need to be totally explicit but I want to know before I call...  what you look like.  Pictures must be good quality high resolution & open large enough to be seen clearly.  While total nudity is not required in any one shot, taken in total, I will literally know what the lady looks like undressed.  You may hide or blur your face.  identifying marks like tats can be blurred BUT you should make it plain you have done so as it IS an issue for some.
   
You must decide on services...  You might want to get paid VIP for a month (recurs but you can cancel) in order to do market research for your area.  
Many gals are GREAT actresses...  indeed they may have a provider persona (some of it may be true but might have false info as well)  You don't want to share too much personal info with clients.  

Keep your wits about you.  It's true of men but also women...  it's easy to fall for a partner you have great sex with.  Be prepared for guys who become too attached.  They don't L O V E you.  They love what you do.  They love how you make them feel.  Many gals will refuse to see clients who become too close...  A provider can not have a clingy client OR a possible stalker.      

 
Understand that very many excellent providers do so for a time...  then leave or retire...  you want to put yourself in a position that you have the education, money, etc to do so on your own terms when you are ready.  I know of several gals who worked their way through grad school...  and graduated debt free!

LovetoDaty 7 Reviews 579 reads
posted
6 / 11

Things may seem overwelming at first. Read the self-help center tips like others have said. Look back several weeks on this board. many most common questions show up every couple of weeks.
Start to get know on your local discussion board. Start to post local ads (evert 7 days) as per the Ads guidelines found in the help center. Get nice pics like London said, get a website going (free one is good to start). If you didn't buy VIP membership on TER it mught be worth it for a few months - so you can send/receive private messages. Many ladies & gents are very willing to help answer your questions eithe on this board or via PM.
Best of luck to you

keystonekid 114 Reviews 581 reads
posted
7 / 11

example. Do a search for her posts and you will see what I mean.

MissBreeBreeze See my TER Reviews 544 reads
posted
8 / 11

One thing many forget starting out. It takes money to make money. Make sure you invest in your look,(hair,nails and etc)  accommodations and make sure you have a kit of the "necessary tools." Also, feel free to be tough when deciding to take clients. Go with your gut instinct and remember the end of the experience is doubly important as the beginning. ;)  

 
Miss Bree Breeze

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 506 reads
posted
9 / 11

Great point, that I missed. If a NEW provider wants to screen via TER, it is essential to have VIP so she can look at his reviews, and message him. Providers without a website or P411, should really utilize this site to make contacts, because that is where the business is going to come from. If you place an ad on Eros, you can't message the guys contacting you except over email, then you have to go through the back and forth about screening. Here, you just plug his handle into the "Search by Reviewers" tab, and presto...you can see how long he has been around, and every lady he has reviewed, thus making it easier to contact them right here.

harborview 10 Reviews 446 reads
posted
11 / 11

My #1 Favorite (chronologically) after we chatted & I expressed my concern due to my age & a chronic medical condition...  she replied:  "It won't be a problem!"  and it wasn't because she didn't allow it to be.  My Favs all share this trait.  Another said:  "We will finish what we start!"  It's is a promise that she'll see to it that I cum (at least once)...  no matter what it takes...  and pretty much no matter how long it takes...      
A lot of guys feel using hands in a BJ is "cheating" (despite the fact we see it in porn pretty often.)  Initially I prefer hands more to stabilize things.  Oral can be very soft & gentle...  If going for an O I like alternating tongue action with stroking.  
Moving forward to intercourse...  we use positions & activities appropriate to the pairing.  At my weight & physical strength, missionary is pretty limited.  That's ok...  it's understood that we switch to things which might work better.  (Another reason why repeat visits can be beneficial.)  Still no pop??  I this point it is their right to take control, to complete the action...  
Then we can switch back to BJ...  with hands as necessary to finish.  Or even a HJ...  

With these Favs...  I can relax & enjoy...  and even focus in them for a bit...  because I know I'll finish...
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