Well guys it looks like I'm all set to start my journey soon. I've done my homework, studied up on the etiquette, the dos and don'ts, the ripoff warning signs and all that good stuff. I'm gonna go ahead and get the VIP membership soon and have the luck of being in Southern California, which has a a wide selection of providers. Everything sounds gravy right? Except for the little problem that I'm still holding on to my v-card and I get freakin nervous just thinking about how to bring it up with a provider. Any one have any ideas to how delicately bring this little factor up when the time comes?

the youngest, the oldest, the cutest, the saddest, etc, etc, etc!!!  There are many of us here who lost there virginity with a provider

You may want to to see a more mature (I talking about attitude, not age) provider.

Good Luck my friend!!!

my goal is to make you comfortable and make sure you leave fully satiated.

I went the same way. It's not that hard. Just be honest and tell her that you are very nervous because you have never had sex. The providor I met just smiled and and said that it was exciting. She made sure to do the best she could to make me enjoy it. She told me it was sexy that she was my first, and was very open to how I wanted to do it. She asked me how I wanted her and went out of her way to make it good for me. Personally, I would recommend not losing it to a providor, simply because it's a big moment in your life and you will always remember it. It should be special (not that providors aren't special, but you get what I mean).  If you do decide to lose it that way, relax and enjoy it and make sure you do extra homework, and if you do, a great providor will make sure you are relaxed, comfortable, and very well taken care of. Good luck and let us know how it goes.

If you're relatively young, I agree with mafishman that maybe it would be better to lose your v-card with someone other than a provider.

But I have to say... I lost my v-card at a relatively late age, at least by my standards (early 20s). I never told the girl that she was my first and, frankly, I don't think she knew. All of my nervousness was gone by the time we did the deed because I wanted her so much. I'd also waited so long that I'd exhausted my tolerance for my own anxiety!

If you feel you are too nervous, or feel you are too old and just want to get it over with, then maybe a provider is a good choice. But if you're looking for that "big moment" experience, try to find a regular girl you're crazy about.

Either way, I guarantee you'll discover one very important truth after you lose it:

Sex is no big deal.

And you'll ask yourself:

What was I so nervous about?

Good luck, brother!

Does anyone recomend any girl(s) that are better at handling virgin clients? I've been an anti social nerd most of my life...and it just never happened. Lived in the ghetto and didnt get out too much. So now I'm 27 and a virgin. Doesnt build confidence!

As far as my friends who are escorts go- any of them would be extremely excited to pop a cherry! I say just let them know up front, that way they can make sure to make it a special experience for you- and you can tell from their reaction just how much they really want to be the one! I'm sure many do!

Good to hear I'm not the only one out there. Thanks for all the replies so far everybody, any more input would be greatly appreciated.

Search the AC and look for someone 35-40 with plenty of reviews.  Read the reviews (need to be a VIP member-best $20 you will ever spend) then make your pick.  Good luck.

I am a "mature" provider (like that word and my name belong in the same sentence, ha!) of 47 with a young attitude, and from my viewpoint, it would be an honor to be a gentleman's first.  I would like to be told up front so that I can make it a truly memorable event.  Not that I don't try very hard to give all my clients a great experience, but a lady should handle a session with a v-card holder differently, more gently and patiently.  Too much enthusiasm might scare the poor dear off.  I would also alot extra time as my gift to him, as this is something that should NOT be hurried, but savored.

If I were with the right provider I could not  imagine a better way to have that first experience.

I'd do this if I was in your spot!  I say older because they won't rush you and will more likely relax you first.  They'll probably enjoy taking your cherry.  In general, my experience is that younger providers are more likely to be wham bams and you don't want that!

You also may want to make sure they allow MSOG ( multiple shots ).  That way if u r too over-anxious ( natural with virgins BTW ) then you can have some more fun and another go at it!  Maybe schedule a 2 hour appt even - save up if u can't afford it!

I was pretty quick my first time with a provider and was very glad she was not a 1&done gal as it was so much better the 2nd cup.  Now most of my next 10 were 1&dones which was the norm back then unless you emptied your 401K!

Someone with lots of 9+ reviews as you can be selective being a one time event!

JMHO
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