Also, why SCREENING both ways is so important. Why you should be careful of BP and try to see well reviewed ladies. Don't be a dumbass and only listen to your little head or you will end up like this:

Safety and discretion are the two main considerations to be aware of when participating in the hobby.  I hope everyone will be careful.

to try and get guys to see women without reviews. Unless they are in a network of UTR women who have a list of guys that they know are legit, most guys on REVIEW boards, look for OMG...reviews lol.  

There are girls on every site that are rip offs or not the girl in the picture or or or.  There's nothing wrong with TER, eros, BP or or or - don't think for a second a girl is legit or good or the girl for you based on WHERE you see the ad.  A history and reviews are somethings that are very helpful and a must for newbies looking for girls IMO.  Experienced guys can vette a little differently and may know when to take a little more risk but screening your provider by email addy, phone number, screename, etc will always be to your advantage.