I recently did a review on a provider and really messed up but didnt notice it until it was posted is their a way to edit them I feel so bad cause the provider was excellent and I don't want people to get the wrong idea

...why you need to edit. They will give you access to make the changes if they deem your reason valid.

because they will assume she is trying to make threats, but if you put something personal (incall location, described a tattoo that is airbrushed from her photos, or put she did CIM and that was only for you) they will allow you to edit some of that out, because it is a privacy issue.

Actually somehow must of clicked on looks a 5 and instead of body type instead of tone I put baby fat lol I feel very bad

An alternative is to write a whole new review...  you can copy & past the text portions but with the corrections.  Re-reviews do not get VIP credit.  The old review will be "Unapproved" and the new one will replace it.  Sometimes they don't allow re-reviews if it has not been a period of time in between.
Editing is best if TER agrees.  I think you explained it very well.

Which is usually a day or two after you submit it.

Go to Account Manager, and then My Reviews and see what the status is.  If not yet published there will be an "edit" button next to it.

If already published, like a suspect, then do write to TER and ask to be able to either edit it or publish a new review.  (Technically new reviews require that you see her again.)

I have done this on a few occasions and TER was very good about it.

convince admin that you have a good reason to change the review.  Otherwise, they will not give you access to it.  I had to do it once myself.  They give you plenty of time to do your editing.

What ever you put for body type will not change her profile. If you were the first reviewer, then your profile entry will set her profile. As a subsequent reviewer, your profile entries don't change anything. If it's the lady I think it is (you only have one review) her body type shows as "athletic."