I've been in the hobby a long while and this is the first time that this has happened to me.  I'm almost positive I got an STD from a provider.  I know this because I didn't have an STD before I saw this provider and now I have one.  I haven't been sexually active with anyone else within the time when I would have been infected.  

But on the other hand, they could end up shooting the messenger.

If you could get word to them somehow anonymously, that might be the best way.

I wonder if the lady in question, that is if you are right and sure you know who it is, is aware and her hiatus is to get well, depending on what type it is.

I'm not sure if I should give out too much information, but what I got was easily treatable.  I don't think it would take that long to get treated.

I am curious about what the STDis  and if you had unprotected sex or got it via BBBJ... Lot's of positions here that BBBJ is safe and I simply am curious..

The only unprotected sex act I did with this provider was BBBJ.  BBBJ isn't 100% safe against STDs.  It's lower risk compared to other types of unprotected sex, but it's still a risk.

1.  Set an appointment to see her and tell her in person.  You will have to pay her (probably) but then at least you are doing her the service of saying to her face and not to anyone else.

IF he's not exaggerating the story  (not active with anyone else, only saw that provider, did bbbj), then he got it from the provider's bbbj. That's a no-brainer unless he's got the facts wrong.

Number 1 would be my preferred solution, but the provider in question is taking a break so I won't be able to see her for another few months.

...anonymous with the lady, is the way to go.  I say this because, she might have been with other gentlemen since your date, and would need to know when you/she became infected.  She might need to notify other gentlemen.  Also, if the OP notifies her anonymously, she might not take it seriously.

First you blast us for our advice as if yours is the one and only sane in approach. If you really believe that contacting an agency and telling them that one of their girls gave you a STD is really going to make a difference I think you're wrong. There are very few and I mean very very few agencies that would take that information seriously or do anything about it. BUT if you really do believe the agency would take it seriously then sending this information anonymously or not doesn't really matter does it. If they care either way they would get ahold of her and ask her to get tested. Again it depends on the type of agency and only he knows. The best way to handle this is to get ahold of her if he can.  

Contact the agency & identify the provider this is pathetic.  No one should pay top $$$ to get an STD.

Also with due respect, as far as it's been said here, I'm the only one here on the client side who's gone through this. When you start your agency or when you stop passing stds, then you can tell johns how to act in response to them.  

Think about it.  They have screened you, so can probably find out who you really are.  You are telling them that you have information that could severely negatively impact their business.  Agencies by their nature need to be aggressive in dealing with risky situations (bad clients, screwy providers, LE).  Some agencies have links with organized crime.

Don't give all your screening shit away. I use three agencies in my area. None of them could really find me if they wanted to. But maybe i'm unusual. I passed screening because I'm real and I've been on ter since 2002. I never gave identifying info. In some cases, I've seen the agency owners when they were working girls.  

We are all dumb enough once to do this- see the std girl again.
I did it.  

Your blasts are rude and presumptive.  You profess to have the best advice because you are the only one on this thread who has caught an STI from a provider before.  You say you diagnosed yourself because you do this for a living, and then you say later that your doctor laughed at you because you caught it again from the same girl.  Maybe that is all true, but it does feel like you are making up bits of the story.

My rep is well known by now, but making stuff up is not one.

I worked for an agency when I started and became the manager ... I'm not saying don't contact them but in my experience here most of them do not care and would dismiss a letter or hang up on a caller who said these things ... They are more concerned with the bottom line not the girls.  I did say contact her however he can but don't assume that contacting the agency will be the end all ... Maybe I didn't make myself clear.  The 100% comment was in regards to not throwing out names just in case.  He (the OP) seems respectful and is using tact so it was just a reminder in general to others.

Because you have something but you do not know what.  I was in a panic & the gal I'd seen assured me she didn't have anything...  and I admit she was safety conscious.  Thankfully she was not a rookie & stayed calm.  Not her first rodeo!  
She strongly suggested I get tested which I did...  and turned out to be the early stages of a UTI.  I was then sure I didn't get it from her.  As it was a Fav, I did tell her my results.  ONCE you know what you have, then you can make the notification.  I would not give hem my real ID.  I'd give them the approximate date of service & that's it.  
It would be dumb to compromise your own safety...      

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there are definitely different types of agencies and the way they are run can vary greatly.

I also agree with exercising some discretion and checking your information....Taking a breather and rethinking the conclusions.

Your rep is well know?  I don't recall ever seeing your handle before this year.  Your reputation with me is as a rude, insensitive know-it-all in serious need of an attitude adjustment.

To answer your question, I would like to see her again, so I could tell her the news personally.  Not for any personal gain, but so that I could make sure the information got to her.  This isn't the first time I've seen this girl so I feel as if we have somewhat of a rapport... as deluded a notion as that may be.  

Yawn. Apparently you don't understand rotating aliases because you're no one here. Figures. The capos from the old 2003-06 regime know me from my old handles.  

I thought you were done writing back ADJ?  I don't even need to rebut your comments they are so self-evidently naive.

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