...once you have a review posted by a TER member. It only takes one.
When anyone/everyone joins TER they are a basic member. Guys can pay for a VIP membership if they choose to & so can providers. (If a provider does it will not distinguish her from the guys though.) Guys can also earn VIP days by submitting reviews on providers they have seen. There are other ways to earn VIP days. If you choose to pay for a VIP membership you will have access to your messages. You could cancel your paid VIP once you were eligible for the provider VIP.
Once a TER member has seen you and writes your first review, submits it, it gets approved and posted, then TER will assign you an ID#. It will be on the upper left of the profile that is then created for you. This is when you can contact TER and request they link your TER handle (BelleDiamond) to your profile. Once they do that you will have the Free Limited Provider VIP membership which allows you to read all the details of your own reviews, allows you to use the TER private message (PM) system (read those messages in your in box), and let's you white list guys that have seen you. With this provider VIP you will have a link attached to your handle which will appear under your handle whenever you post on a discussion board as well as on your regional ad board. This link will say "See My TER Reviews". Anyone reading your post or ad can click this link and see your profile to find out about you..
If you have reviews or if you want to see if you do go to the reviews tab at the top. Click it. Then click "search reviews". Enter any of your info such as e-mail address, phone number, provider name, city, etc then scroll to the bottom and click "search". You may find your reviews if you have any. Your name will be listed down the left. Click on your name. You will be taken to your profile. Your ID# will be on your profile, upper left.
Read the Self-Help Center on the upper right of this discussion board under the red & white life preserver. Click and read all the links you find there. A lot of your questions will be answered. Then come to this board to ask more questions if you need to.
(I put the Self-Help Center link at the bottom of this post.)
Until you have reviews (assuming you don't have any now) you can post on your regional discussion board and place an ad on your regional ad board so guys can get to know about you.
Be sure to read the Self-Help Center for the guidelines to post an ad. There are very specific things required to place an ad. The ads are free.
-- Modified on 9/28/2013 8:09:28 AM