Sound advice is skip. Did you ask why she is not on a verification service? You could refer her. That way you don't need a story or excuse. You can volunteer to be her first verified customer.
Since every provider started out at some point with no reviews or reputation, I thought it would be helpful to get a providers take on this issue.
How would you recommend a hobbyist proceed when they come across a provider who's ad looks great, but can't find enough info online to give the hobbyist a "warm fuzzy" about seeing the provider?
If you're an experienced hobbyist then you can try and see her. If you're a newbie yourself then pass.
You're new at this yourself, and you have to hobbyied for a while to get the feel if a newbie is legit or not.
Since hobbying I've TOFTT a total of 4 times.
1st time was great.
2nd time was bait & switch
3rd time was bait & switch again but same girl (was actually funny)
4th time was a bait & switch (but it was a 2nd provider I had seen before)
5th time almost got robbed.
After that incident I only see girls who are well reivewed, or a fellow hobbyist or provider I'm friends with knows she's legit before I go to see her.
Thanks for the input...After thinking it over...I am going to pass on this one.
I don't have the disposable income that I used to. So, in order to justify the expense of seeing someone, the provider needs to be a "Slam Dunk"
I'm just going to hold off until the right opportunity comes along.
Other ways of taking the measure of her would be to check out whether her photos are legit by using Tin Eye or a similar photo software.
But if you are new at this, I would pass and stick with well reviewed providers.
In fact, I would not recomend anyone see an unreveiwed provider unless you get a solid gold recomendation from someone you know and trust well.
Sound advice is skip. Did you ask why she is not on a verification service? You could refer her. That way you don't need a story or excuse. You can volunteer to be her first verified customer.
I was the newbie, so completely ignorant and uninformed.
We spent over 2 hours talking after the session and he gave me a lot of advice and insight that has likely kept me out of danger and trouble since.
I still often seek out his advice and he always steers me in the right direction.
If my first reviewer would have also been a newbie, things may have turned out very different for me and I may have floundered, gotten arrested, hurt or robbed and quit.
Leave the TOFTT to guys more experienced not only for your sake, but for the girl's sake, too.
I was the newbie, so completely ignorant and uninformed.
We spent over 2 hours talking after the session and he gave me a lot of advice and insight that has likely kept me out of danger and trouble since.
I still often seek out his advice and he always steers me in the right direction.
If my first reviewer would have also been a newbie, things may have turned out very different for me and I may have floundered, gotten arrested, hurt or robbed and quit.
Leave the TOFTT to guys more experienced not only for your sake, but for the girl's sake, too.
I was the newbie, so completely ignorant and uninformed.
We spent over 2 hours talking after the session and he gave me a lot of advice and insight that has likely kept me out of danger and trouble since.
I still often seek out his advice and he always steers me in the right direction.
If my first reviewer would have also been a newbie, things may have turned out very different for me and I may have floundered, gotten arrested, hurt or robbed and quit.
Leave the TOFTT to guys more experienced not only for your sake, but for the girl's sake, too.
I was the newbie, so completely ignorant and uninformed.
We spent over 2 hours talking after the session and he gave me a lot of advice and insight that has likely kept me out of danger and trouble since.
I still often seek out his advice and he always steers me in the right direction.
If my first reviewer would have also been a newbie, things may have turned out very different for me and I may have floundered, gotten arrested, hurt or robbed and quit.
Leave the TOFTT to guys more experienced not only for your sake, but for the girl's sake, too.
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