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Unfortunately, a LOT of reviews have no mention of a cover.confused_smile
NoGreenBorderedEnvelope 170 reads
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Nor do they say anything about bareback.  I think in almost all these cases, it's just sloppy writing and there was a cover.  But you really don't know for sure just by reading the review.  For reviews like that, I think there should be VIP days taken away, not given.  

A provider lists Ultimate G.F.E. on her website for service provided.  What does that imply?

However don't assume that as a fact. All these terms are ambiguous at best. Just like basic GFE and PSE have different meanings to different people, so will prefix terms like "ultimate" "ultra" etc.  It only means what she thinks it means.
The only way to know is to check reviews, talk to reviewers by PM, or by having a session.

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Yep - the same way I see a lot of Providers advertising themselves as “elite” and “upscale” irrelevant of price range, services offered, average review scores, etc.

 
And yes - research, research, research.  I recently read a review in which there was NO mention of a condom; I would have thought the guy had received BBFS if I’d just gone by his Juicy Details.  But when I PMed him, he confirmed that wasn’t the case.

 
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Nor do they say anything about bareback.  I think in almost all these cases, it's just sloppy writing and there was a cover.  But you really don't know for sure just by reading the review.  For reviews like that, I think there should be VIP days taken away, not given.  

It has come up on the Suggestion board that TER add an OBLIGATORY check box or data field to explicitly state whether FS was CFS or BBFS. Then, the writers can write their writings without breaking their wrythm. Er, rhythm.  
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Chime in on S&P if you think it's a good (or bad) idea.

...as it's a marketing term with no standard definition. Think of wine and you will see many terms used on the label -- "Winemaker's Reserve," "Barrel Select" and "Old Vine." NONE of them have a legally-binding definition -- in the sales and marketing world, such terms are called puffery and it's something that sales people have been doing for centuries.

The only term that applies in this situation is YMMV -- You Mileage May Vary and it's up to her to define what kind of mileage you might or might not receive. Since you'd be a fool to ask for specifics ahead of time, it's a huge gamble on an unknown quantity.

NotAnAlias207 reads

I would take the "ultimate" as a marketing superlative. But I think most folks would agree that GFE usually implies DFK and BBBJ. So that would be my basic expectation. That said, all providers reserve the right to do what they are comfortable with when with a given individual.  So YMMV, but the basic expectation should be DKK and BBBJ IMO.

GFE barely means anything as it is, at the most it's just a more likely chance of BBBJ and DFK, and I'm still not sure what a PSE is supposed to be. There's no such thing as an Ultimate GFE. For all we know she just thought it sounded better.

 
Just ask her what an Ultimate GFE is supposed to entail, cause it's anybody's guess otherwise.  

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