Posted By: harbor_view
by reading the self help section. Reading back on this board until you can answer every question. Find out about secure email & hobby phones. Then look at the reviews, look at the ads, look at their web sites. When you are done drooling, see what instructions they have for meeting.
Also be warry of scams like upsell, Bait & switch, & runners... if you pick well reviewed TER ladies should not be an issue but with others you can not be sure.
When you contact, you must find someone newbie friendly. Admit you are new...
Never mention cost & sex. You both know why you're there. If you've read her reviews & found a good match, the services should be there. If you red her ad there is no reason to discuss money, you can mention where you saw the ad.
DO NOT get hung up on picking the perfect girl. This is not a dating service. When the door closes between you, you'll have your memories but not a girl friend.
I recommend a newbie friendly MILF in the +/- 29-30 age brkt. Young enough to be sexy & hot, old enough to be experienced.
Remember, this is a secret life, 007. You never tell your best friend, your brother, your gf, the girl you are about to marry. This goes with you to your grave. The only place to talk about it is here! (If you are about to marry, you tell her you had GFs before. You never say who or how long they were your GFs for.)
If you are young, I do not recommend giving up on civie dating. However, the guarentee of this hobby is a relief (I'd have been way better off to have hobbied than my first marriage!) It let's you civie date without being horny out of your mind.
Also, no matter how great the sex is... and it can be emotionally powerful. But that is the hormones kicking in, designed to protect the women & children from dinos. You are not in LOVE with her. You can love what she does. She is not in LOVE with you. Generally, providers do not date clients. There are extreemly rare exceptions where a client & provider DO fall for each other & survive the minefield of a relationship with a past. It is remarkable that it ever happens. I recommend NOT serial meeting with the same provider but to find a few 3-4 compatible favorites whom you can rotate while keeping your emotions in check. Keep your heart on a short leash. YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED!
Best wishes,
H