At hotels I am always worried people will hear us. So when the moaning gets louder, it quickly defuses my boner. Is there a polite way to tell the provider I like things quiet?

Not really.  There's also no polite way for me to suggest that your fear is ... well... lots of people have sex at hotels.  It's hardly unusual.  Sorry to hear it deflates your boner.

However, it is against the law to pay for sex

Try walking back to your room around midnight in NYC...you'll hear sounds from several rooms on the way.    I wouldn't sweat it unless she's REALLY loud...sex and hotels go together like a hand and a glove.

Can't even imagine it....


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Just tell her.  She is there to please you.  If it were me I would want to know why the boner was going away so I could fix that.

You're the only one who knows it's "naughty."  If someone hears you they'll think someone is having sex.  That's it.

There is nothing naughty or forbidden about the glorious sound of a woman in the throes of passion.

It is music of the best sort to my ears.

You need to take a long hard look at yourself and address your hangups simply because you are cheating yourself out of truly enjoying what is a wonderfully human and magical experience.

Free yourself and enjoy. Otherwise all you're doing is pissing on what should be a bonfire.
Why seek to constrain another's joy because of your deep seated and unnecessary paranoia?

If you're genuinely eliciting such a response see it for the incredible experience it is and be complimented.

You're cheating yourself. Give up, give in, and let go. Grow up.

My civie sex life is pretty sound constrained with kids....so for me the sounds in the throws of passion are more than welcome from my providers.  Hell scream it from the mountain tops!

Plus it's not just the sex, the ego stroke that goes along with hearing loud "positive feedback" is pretty f'in nice.

Come on, you're telling me you don't get a charge out hearing "YES FUCK ME HARDER" a just resolute "I'M CUMMING!" or even just a well timed moan or gasp?  Nothing sexier than a woman just flat out into it.

But I guess as with most thing...one man's symphony is another man's rap music.

I would just say something if you don't like it.

Have a few regulars that have loud pipes...which I love by the way. This seems to
work for them, background music, bring your own tunes or I have one that turns up the TV in
the room.  Either way prob solved....

Just stop and ask can she use a pillow or something orrrrrr play music.

and having to be quiet ruins it for me!  

BUT, I can put the pillow over the face, or clamp my own hand over my mouth and I've had the man's hand over my mouth which was kind of sexy in a way.  

I just can't help myself!
Ohhh la la!

Lol I love them.... "hey can you do POF?" lol

I am a talker and a screamer.  When my partner is telling how good it feels, moans, screams and creams I really enjoy it.  One time with a civvie, we had the windows open and forgot about it -- ooops.  The neighbors had a good show, LOL

You can be staying next door to a group of nuns and have loud sex and no one is going to call the front desk to day your having sex is too loud.  Blast the TV and that is different story altogether. IMHO.
Doc

I mean concourse C was literally right outside our bedroom window.

I love to hear them scream. Screw the neighbors.