I am a man that likes to hobby from time to time. I always seem to run into problems with my endowment. I have been told by women that I have length and girth combined. On several occasions I have done my research on the lady I want to meet, but once she gets a look at it, mentally decides is too much for her to handle. More times than I wanna admit to, I leave havin given the FS donation, but only received a BBBJ and a compliment that I am well endowed or that I should do porn or something. I do take it as a compliment, but often feel like I have just waisted my donation.  

I wouldn't ask for my donation back, though perhaps I might start with short sessions to see how it goes.

You might have to let said hooker know about it up front so that the donation can be altered to reflect the lack of PV action or she can just refuse to see you...up to her.  

as to how a prospective client could bring this up in advance to a prospective provider? This is the newbie board and we always drill into them, "never discuss anything sex related." So for the benefit of the OP and other newbies who may have his "problem," what are good ways they can bring it up pre meeting to make sure they are compatible, without getting hung up on, or getting their emails ignored, or even blacklisted?

Some ladies would be fine with you letting them know about your size beforehand, but there are plenty (myself included) who don't want any of that sort of talk to transpire before meeting you. So on that front, I'm afraid I don't have a solid answer as far as how to avoid running into that issue.  

Something that I would answer ....

Just put this in your profile - in a straight forward manner ("I am a magnum+ gentleman" or something like that).  And mention there that because FS is important to you, that if this can't be accommodated, that the lady respectfully let you know, as it wouldn't then be a good match for what you are looking for.  Then, when corresponding with ladies, confirm with them before scheduling that they have indeed reviewed your profile and are okay with it and don't forsee a problem.

I have a similar size problem, but in my case it is my large waistline.

I love it. I wish more guys on P411 would spell stuff like this out. For instance if a guy likes full on action for the entire time, he can say that and be matched with a lady who loves that.  

about my brilliance! haha! ;o)

I have similar issues. I actually buy custom condoms because I have more girth than the average guy. I get off the best when I go deep, but with some providers I cant. In those cases, I never really get off like I would like. However, it depends on the provider. I have spent time with a 20 something once that was nervous when she saw it, but once I assured her I am not rough, she ended up having an O in both k-9 and mish she said. I remember another who could take me in mish and had an intense O in mish, but could not take me in k-9. My last provider seemed to endure the whole appointment and I could not go deep in any position except her on top, which is my least favorite position.  

You don't really make any mention of your size except for this one statement that can be easily missed.

"She could probably smoke a cigarette in one drag is what I'm trying to say" hahahaha that's awesome.

visiting Vegas anytime soon???   I'm in lol