When you get a phone call from someone you've never spoken to before and he says "Can you come over like right now" Am I naive for thinking people will at least say hello and tell you who they are...

I just cant imagine, personally, people I don't know calling me constantly. I would rip my hair out.

Email gives them a chance to give a bit more about themselves and they have the time and ability to review it before they send it to make sure it is professional, friendly and informative.  

It also allows you to get to it at a time convenient for you.

And if they don't approach you in the right manner by email, that's what they created the "delete" key for. lol

Just a thought.

Many providers do that to lessen the chance of what you experienced. Also keeps the riff raff to a minimum since they can only email you.  

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would put her phone number in ads found on the internet. If a guy can read the ad, he will have email and can send an email to her. Why would a lady want her phone to ring at all hours of the day & night?

A guy I've never met before asked if I could be available in 5 minutes LOL.But yeah i agree with what everyone else says.If you can't deal with those kind of calls,only have your contact info as your email

is often LE.  Sometimes they'll offer to even pay double.

A few gals have told me that they got bagged this way

7 times out of 10
1 times out of 10
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8 times out of 10

OK. You got me. What are the other 2 times out of 10?

And SHE hangs up on ME.

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is exactly why someone does not get my phone number until they have passed screening! I do not have the time or patience for that BS.

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There are 5 reasons I prefer using my phone and 5 ways I deal with the bullshit:

Reasons:
1. It's faster. From your initial contact to the time everything is set up can take 10-30mins using a phone. Using e-mail, you might as well be booking 12  hours in advance, because I can miss messages the way emails set themselves up. And since most girls only get notifications for PRIMARY e-mails, the regular inbox gets ignored, along with many potential clients. Ive had P4 members TEXT me to make sure I got there appointment requests. If they didnt, they probably wouldnt have seen me.  Just saying.

2. It's easier for some clients. Its way easier to pick up a phone and be yourself than worry about making an impression through e-mail, then waiting forever for an answer, wondering if you said something wrong. Then those clients that dont speak fluently or write in english, prefer a phone.call or text message over a professional e-mail because its it's easier for them to comprehend.

3.I am never not available. My phone is always on me, always. My emails arent. Sometimes my phone wont sync, or I'll have 2g cell service and cant load ur message. Ive dealt with this way TOO MUCH, escpecially when im done using my 4g & 3g data. I may just never get back to you. E-mailing is a hassle, just imho.

4. It's more personal/personable.  Do u know if its the provider or a booker on the other side pf that email? No, u dont. U can call me, hear my voice, know who ur talking to. No guesswork.

And 5. Convience to the consumers. A client is more likely to call customer service than email them. Instant gratification is a human normality that I, as a gratifier (yea I made that up) feel I *should adhere to. This being one of them. Every other business has some type of phone # for customer convenience. So, call me your naked representative

 
How I deal with the BULL:

1. Apps. There are at least 2 apps on the play store where escorts report problem #s. Cops, rapist, no shows, time wasters, are all reported here. I always check this before replying to the client.

2. Blocking the persons number. There's apps for this too, ignoring also works, & saving the number as DNA are also very helpful.

3. Annoying humor. Nothing makes guys more upset than treating them like the jokes they act like. I have too many messages where I just made joke after joke until the guy got so pissed he just stopped answering entirley.

4. Strategic Lying. Say u dont do the things they want u to do, even if you do them. You dont like the guy. U get a bad vibe. "No, I dont do any blowjobs of any kind at all" (LOLZ) bet you he'll leave u alone after u tell him that.

5. Patience. Men, as a whole, are pretty silly minded and somewhat dim at times, thinking with one head over the other. They arent thinkinh, theyre acting. Slow them down, step back dude.. Ill tell u where I am AFTER I know who u are baby. We dont rush good things.

 
BOOM, IVE ANSWERED THE QUESTION

Wish: Granted

Star out *peac

Very well stated and thought out with tons of logic to back up your point.

For YOU, it clearly works how you are doing it so I would never ever try and talk you out of doing it.

However, many people cant deal with the bullshit the way you seem to do and for those, your methodology wouldn't work.

Personally, I have no desire to call a girl as email works perfectly for me. Your clients may be different, and clearly they are so whatever works best for them is best for your business model.

Again great post. You made me see this issue quite differently then before.

Call Girls!

LOLZ.

After all, GFE is about being familiar or at least feeling familiar with a lovely man.  I rarely have that feeling with nameless strangers.

...which may feed into why some need to seek out sex workers in the first place.

Beautiful & smart answer, and it works for you. Then again, you have bigger balls than a lot of so-called men out there .... 😏

Lol, yes you do baby. :-*