I am new to this hobby field and green to the game. I wonder how do providers feel about having ongoing communication and conversation with hobbyists they have seen.   It appears that they don't want to be bothered unless it is regarding making an appointment to see them.  

Never assume that the GFE you experienced within the time you paid for carries over beyond that time.

That said, there are times when you get to know a gal pretty well (usually over a long period of time) that they will initiate and perhaps even encourage a bit of idle chat via email, text, and sometimes even phone.  This is somewhat rare, but not unknown.

In a way, it is good marketing as it keeps their presence in your mind so that you  will think of them when considering seeing a provider.  Of course there could also be some affection being expressed there as well.  Where the line between business and pleasure gets drawn will vary with the people and the circumstances.

The bottom line is:  Tread lightly.

is that to be sure that you are not becoming a pest, and that she really welcomes the countless texts/emails/calls that some guys make, is to make sure that she is the one to initiate them, and never send more than one, or two at the very most communications without getting a response.She will respond when she wants to, and when she has the time, multiple efforts to reach her when she is busy or just not in the mood to talk will most likely get you on her DNS list, so if you ever have the least bit of doubt that you might be making a pest of yourself, err of the side of leaving her be.

If that's what you're looking for, ask her. If you're just blowing up her phone because you want someone to talk to, DON'T.

My normal is to hear from the ladies long after they retire. Some of these ladies become very successful in the business world, and just want to talk with someone with no agenda. Age slows the agenda down. Usually they just want to catch up like old friends. Hearing from them at the holidays is the norm.

match.com or wiveswanttofuck or any other such venue.

Dear Julia:
Just wondering if sometimes some of your good "friends" call you just to say hello? If so do you take the calls, if they don't call to often.

Never send more than one, two at the most without getting a response.  You're pretty safe with that policy.

There is a zero percent chance you consider it past tense while she considers it ongoing.  If it's past tense, then no, she won't want the facebook status updates of your life, and especially no "Hey whatz up?"

it was not something I planned or expected.  

My doctor likes my naughty jokes and I like fast access, my hair stylist occasionally travels with me, and my barista specifically asked me to check in if I won't be in for a few days- he worries, lol.

You can't have a personal relationship with SOME of the people you work with!!!  That's INSANE!!!

Well I guess I will chime in.  I'm still a newb, but recently had an experience in which a provider clearly stated she was "interviewing" for a sugar daddy arrangement.  So I guess there are some providers that will do this although I don't see much difference between that and the already existing client/provider relationship but perhaps with more exclusivity and broader boundaries.  But still its p4p.

No fee or subscription required, lol. There is no set rule, and it varies from lady to lady.

THE most important thing is to not abuse the privilege.

xoxo,

Steph

It would be up to her to choose which one she want to reply to or none at all.

It appears from the comments for a provider one would assume the provider doesn't enjoy what they do.  It must be unpleasant doing a job and not have an interest in the people that you so intimate with.

I certainly agree.

Now I can see that happening.  Those little communication makes me want to make an appointment sooner than planned

That would be rude to blow up anyone phone because a need to talk to someone.   I wouldn't want it neither.   I do take an interest in anyone I have ongoing intimacy with.   I'm not a robot.   If their behavior is dry, I will definitely not see them again.   I will take my money somewhere else.

Two or three of the ladies I've seen keep in touch with me and I them. But, they are ones where we've clicked more than just with the bedroom stuff.  They are also ones that I've seen more than once and plan to see them again.   However, I don't call them. Usually an email or two once a month just to check in and catchup on things that we've talked about in past.  

This is the case for me also and email is my method of communication.   I don't expect it.  When I get a reply it increases my chances of her being my ATF.   If I don't make a connection with a provider I want see her again.  I certainly wouldn't try to keep some form of communication open.  

If it is ongoing like every other week,  is that similar to a sugar daddy?

Would you think the same if you saw that person once a week or every other week or twice a month.   Think about the yearly income it amount to.   What would be your guidelines for that person if any to communicate with you.

I think you are absolutely right regarding how providers feel.

I keep in touch with my local Provider on a daily basis. When she needs a ride home or to the grocery store, I pick her up and drive her there. I've been seeing her for well over a year. We've become Friends.