I don't write reviews but my interest is in keeping you newbs safe, not in promulgating an agenda or manipulating young women new to the business.
My advice, and advice that will be echoed by almost every experienced monger on this board is to NOT TOFTT or see any un reviewed women PERIOD until you are experienced enough to be answering questions here instead of asking them.
Other points I feel I need to refute, do NOT ask specific questions about sexual acts, most reputable women will hang up on you and put you on their personal DNS list or worse if you start prying for details about her sessions over the phone or through other communication before meeting in person. Don't do it.
When calling a provider NEVER assure her you are not police, that subject should never even come up, instead you should assure her you are a gentleman and that you will respect her rules and her boundaries. If you find either her rules or her boundaries unacceptable, don't push them or her, simply find a more compatible provider to spend time with.
Lastly, TER has good reason not to accept any more TOFTT reviews from this guy, keep in mind that reviews are the life blood of this site and accounts for 99% of it's value, if TER is limiting the reviews it will accept from this member, rest assured they have good reason.
I know sometimes you can become infatuated by a woman with no reviews or other history about her and it's tempting to throw caution to the wind, but as someone still new to this you need to exercise a bit of patience, if she really is "all that" somebody else will take that first chance on her and she'll still be around in a few weeks or months.