Hello all

Link is at the top of the page under the life preserver.  Sounds like you do have some problems, however, and, sorry I don't have the answers to your questions.  At this point, I can only wish you good luck.

I'm in detroit, i've read the self help section.i've tried to post a few ads online

you have to either have a personal website, or be able to link to an ad, like on backpage, or some similar site.  Again, BC90, good luck, hope it works out for you.

Perhaps an agency out there may be willing to take a chance with you however, don't act out of desperation and jump into the first agency that accepts you under their wing. This life is not for everyone and as glamorous and profitable you may think it is, you need to use your instinct and common sense to protect yourself from potential hazards that can ruin your life (getting killed, raped, abuse, pimps, getting arrested etc). A good agency will treat you with respect, consideration and appreciation, unfortunately many don't operate under those premises. Some may work with girls with no transportation offering drivers to take them to calls nevertheless, ask to speak to the girls so you know you are not involved into a shady organization, look at their weekly posts on the Ad boards, analyze the reviews written about their girls.. As others have stated, you need to read the self help center for newbies. Tons of great answers there, take your time, do your research, we all have started somewhere but I do admire and praise the fact that you are inquiring here first and not making uninformed choices. You do not need a closet full of designer clothes, just dress appropriately, treat people right, always well groomed with impeccable and treat people with respect. Show gentlemen that you are trustworthy and genuine.

what is expected then? im sure jeans and T would not cut it but if thats all shes got.....  

with simply answering the door in a bra and panties.

I have one other word of advice for the OP. While it might be necessary to be completely honest with any agency that you might consider working for about your financial situation, be very careful in telling anyone else how desperate you are. There is a whole world of predators out there and you might very well be pressured into doing some very unsafe activities by guys knowing that you are desperate. Being broke will pass, but actions have lifelong consequences, by all means be safe and careful. There are some very fine gentleman who will do their best to actually help you, but there are the other kind out there as well. Good luck to you.

My preference when visiting someone at their hotel or residence is a simply elegant black dress with classy heels (nothing too open, revealing or skanky shoes), does not have to be expensive, or flashy. I dress very conservatively because I never know who I may run into at the hotel etc.. Of course I bring with me lingerie choices for private time.  In my incall, I wear dresses as well with heels, nothing super elegant but classy enough to be understated, I do not recommend opening the door wearing lingerie for a new client, always be aware that as much screening as you do, you need to get acquainted and comfortable first . I feel that sometimes, some girls feel that we should look or we in reality look like Julia Roberts in "Pretty Woman" with the boots and the whole exhilarating outfit going on. I have been requested to wear jeans and a T shirt, but once again, usually I am very aware of where I am going, and I try to fit and blend in as much as possible. When I first started like many, I only had few outfits to choose from (I was an undergraduate student struggling) nevertheless, I shopped for things within my budget to invest in my wardrobe. My advice, don't go overboard, perhaps you have an outfit at home that you can make work with heels etc, or a nice coat over it depending on the weather. As you start escalating, always designated certain amount to buy things that you can add to your closet. Tons of affordable places to choose from.