and they all revolve around the specifics of each of your situations as well as the kind of people you are.

I've been in a long distance serious reletionship with one provider gal for over five years now, and it is working out well.  Of course we are both divorced and we are both fairly mature grown ups with grown up kids, etc.

For a young married guy with young kids at home and not a lot of life experience, it could be a disaster.

By all means, do some research on The Erotic Highway and read up on all the situations you'll find there.

If you keep things light and easy, it is probably for the best, but you know how those things can go.