and ask her if she will give you a whitelist referral.  It will probably make her more likely to do that for you if you have posted a nice review, so she knows you really enjoyed your date with her.

Swim

Ok. I've heard/read this term many times now and yet still fully understand it other then its a list. So my question is:

What is it and how do I get on it?

It basically says to other providers, that the lady saw you. Some escorts will accept the white list as a screening method/reference, others WILL NOT, and they will request the name and contact info of a provider you've recently seen. Just depends on the screening method of the lady you want to see.