try searching. Self employed verification can be done and it was talked about a few months back. I didn't pay much attention because I am a provider and not a hobbyist.
Once you see one provider who will give you a good reference then you are pretty much in(although I require 2 references or see driver's license)
basically look for reviewed ladies(2+) and ask if they are "newbie friendly". Because if you've never been with an escort before then you might accidently do things that are a "no-no" without you even knowing. This way she knows you are new and won't get offended or angry if you DO do something wrong.
Ok I joined TER 3 months ago and was thinking about hobbying. I thought," I have a great job and my sexlife sucks (I have almost no game) so I'll try out an escort, damn it ain't easy. I need references. I tried Date Check and P411 and if you don't have a reference they have to call your job. My problem is, is that I am a self employed private/ union contractor so I have no office or anything like that. So I was wondering if there are any providers out there in the NY/NJ area who can help me get off the right foot if you have other means of verifying and can also be a reference or anyone who can throw me some advice. I'm aware of the rules I have red many rule on a lot of websites to the etiquite of a provider (and on provider webpages) and am extremely polite/ chiil as a cucumber.
try searching. Self employed verification can be done and it was talked about a few months back. I didn't pay much attention because I am a provider and not a hobbyist.
Once you see one provider who will give you a good reference then you are pretty much in(although I require 2 references or see driver's license)
basically look for reviewed ladies(2+) and ask if they are "newbie friendly". Because if you've never been with an escort before then you might accidently do things that are a "no-no" without you even knowing. This way she knows you are new and won't get offended or angry if you DO do something wrong.
hhb has given you a good answer. Many ladies will also state on their web site they are newbie friendly. Take your time find the right lady, and you'll be on your way.
I know because I did it. You need to call their 800# and a rep will discuss other verification that will work. Then find a newbie friendly provider on their site and you're off.
Ladies who list there can determine how many references they want before seeing someone, and you will only see the full listings for those ladies who accept the number you have (so, for example, if a provider requires two okays, you will not see her listing until you get those two okays).
Anyway, it really is not a big challenge, just look for newbie friendly providers, so listed, or you could even try making a post on your local board and ask for newbie friendly providers to PM you. You may not get to choose your dream girl the first time, but if you have not had much fun lately and you stick with well reviewed ladies, you will have great fun and it will only get better from there.
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