Should I be concerned about a provider that hasn't attempted to verify me.  The provider agreed to make an appointment with me only giving my first name.  This provider does have more than 10recent reviews on TER in the last year.

I'm thinking No.

She is listed on Preferred 411.  I thought that screened pretty well?

using his phone # (unless it's an anonymous hobby phone), or other Internet-related info (same caveat).

If you live in a big city or an area where busts often occur, it can be a cause for concern. Where I am (western Carolinas), many legit providers ask for little or no info. If those reviews are good, I would give them a lot more consideration than her screening practices.

With 10 reviews, she should know better, but, financial concerns can and will effect an escorts thinking.

I did not give phone number, only email address to make appointment.  The appointment is in a large city in the West, a couple of weeks from now.  Just a little concerned.

The P411 verification works both ways  --   but,  you have to contact her THROUGH P411 for her to see your information -- unless you gave it to her some other way.

She may have information about you from your posting history. Then again, she may simply be a careless provider. You may want to ask her why she did not screen you.

I didn't contact through P411, I'm not a member.    I used a non primary email account.  She never asked for any personal info.  I only used my 1st name.  I asked about exact services & fees (she gave the requested info.).   I requested an appointment, with the things that I wanted & she booked the appointment.  Told me to call her when I get to town, to give her my room # for the outcall appointment.  Am I reading too much into this?

at your hotel and called for it last thing before coming up. That's standard for outcall with any provider, regardless of how discreet she is.

It sounds like this one could stand to be more discreet, if she's discussing "exact services" with anybody she hasn't met before, let alone screened. However, if she's on P411, has good reviews, and is doing outcalls, chances are she's legit. Be careful, though. One of you needs to be.

It all just seems to go against everything that I have read here.  She wants to see my ID (when she arrives) to ensure that I'm not a local.  Also states that she wants the money in an envelope & to HAND it to her when she gets there.

get into town.  I'd be checking with the members who reviewed her most recently.  She might just be wanting to make sure you are serious before expending her time screening you.

Sorry, I see too many red flags here. If she's specifying that you directly hand her the payment, that's the last straw. In combination with discussing services and wanting your room number right away, it sounds like it could be a setup. It probably isn't , but why take a chance? Unless you get solid confirmation by PMing her reviewers, I'd say move on to somebody else.

I wouldn't proceed even with solid reviewer assurances.  Things change.  Why place one's safety and reputation in the hands of someone who is flagrantly indiscreet.  

Cancel and tell her why.

Thank you for the very helpful information.  I am going to skip this encounter.

I recently used a very reputable agency in Toronto and they didn't verify, either.  And I was a newbie.  They took my first name and phone number but didn't call back; the next time I heard from them was when she showed up.  Everything was great, but I admit I was surprised they were that trusting.

I don't think it was the usual lady taking the calls; it's possible you just caught them on an off night.

Personally, I would run not walk...

You have more time to find a lady who will screen you more thoroughly. Those of us ladies who are serious about what we do know what not to discuss at any time!!!

Sorry but this is hitting my gut and not in a good way...up to you but I say RUN!!