How do most ladies collect deposits for a large booking? I am looking for any kind of advise here.  
I have something pending & need to figure out how to do this.

You need to open an account with them.

The guy can buy them anonymously and text you the code on the back of the card which will then give you access to the money in about 2 hours.

Not too expensive either, $4.95 for up to $500 per card.

Thanks for the suggestion. It's gonna take a few of them at that rate!
I guess I should nose around & do some research.  

direction you need to submit your deposit.

Yes, I am female. Born & bred. Not so sure about the lady part!!
Glad someone noticed though! LO

) It reveals your real name

...cash, and AMEX Gift cards.  Only "old and dear freinds" can forward funds via PayPal.

They are general pains in the ass, and once held on to a payment I had made for months until I had to hire a lawyer to get it back from them.

Mailing a check, if you are very trusting of the gal, and you don't have issues with someone finding out, is a cheap way to send the money, but obviously not for everybody.

This was just discussed on the PO forum, but I see you do not have access to that board.  I have never used greendot, and avoid paypal because they will hold funds for up to 6 months & terminate your account if they find out it is for adult services.

The amount is several thousand dollars. (somewhere in the 5-7k range.)
Right now, I can wait. Not forever but a while lol