Ok I signed up VIP , made some contact and was asked for my TER ID. after giving I realized I never answered questions about me do we have similar profiles like providers. How do they rate us.

Basically do we have one and where is it

The hell is she going to do with your TER ID?  RS2K, P411, etc maybe.

Next, yes, there is a white list linked off your TER profile page, but I doubt it really means anything other than self-kudo's for not being an ass.  Personally, I want to be put on it, but eh, I'll live without it.

Lastly, the HELL is she going to do with your TER id?  Seriously!  I'm assuming you have yet to see her, so she's got like no use for your TER id - AFAIK.

She might want to read your review, and check to see if you are whitelisted by anyone.

Some like to see if you review; others check the Boards to see if you're rude or nasty or have a bad attitude toward providers.  Not that it's a great way to check anything but different gals have different screening methods.  Clearly she's doing other things, too.