I have ED and would like to hear from providers how they approach this subject. I would really like to spend some time with a beautiful lady but am a little shy because of my problem with ED. I miss the intimacy of lying with a women and doing those things that men like to do with a woman...especially oral sex. Your thoughts on this matter would be very much appreciated. Any guys out there that have ED and still hobby?

so yes, there are providers who are good at making a person feel wonderful without the usual gymnastics that are usually associated with the hobby.

I would suggest the more mature providers and that you disclose your needs to them at the time you contact them.

There's more to this than a bunch of machinery in motion.

I've always believed the best providers are not successful because of their technical skills alone (can't think of a better way to phrase that, sorry) but because of how they make a guy feel.

I had a conversation a while back with a couple of providers in LA, they kept wondering about this other, very highly rated provider: 'what does she do to earn such high scores?'.   My opinion was that this lady, and any other, doesn't 'do' anything different but has the talent to make a guy feel like the centre of her world when he's with her.

Which is a long way of saying that if you choose your provider well you should still be able to have very fulfilling encounters.

...to enjoy and as stated in the earlier posts, the real good providers understand how to provide enjoyment beyond the 'usual'. I went on a dinner date with one and while learning the meaning of "body slide" left a great memory, the hours talking and enjoying wine and music before were just as enjoyable in it's own way. And as a newbie still trying to find my comfort zone in the hobby, the ladies can be verrrry creative...

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