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mrfisher 112 Reviews 822 reads
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I'm not saying she hasn't a right to decide what criteria to use for White Listing, but it sounds like she is using the White List to coerce (That may be too strong a word.) you into seeing her.

I have many White Listings most from gals I've only seen once or a few times.

It shouldn't take more than that to assure her that you are a person worthy of being White Listed which means that you are basically an honoable and worthy client.

McDonald0002381 reads

I have been hobbying for a year, and read many reviews. Having a whitelist has its benefits for many reasons-- a good source of reference. I am curious as to how to get whitelist referrals from providers. I assume the procedure of getting a whitelist from an agency is to call them. Any help would be appreciated, thanks.

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4morefun1072 reads

I've never been white listed but a provider once told me that if I see her six times, she would white list me.  Hope this helps.

-- Modified on 7/9/2011 4:47:05 PM

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mrfisher823 reads

I'm not saying she hasn't a right to decide what criteria to use for White Listing, but it sounds like she is using the White List to coerce (That may be too strong a word.) you into seeing her.

I have many White Listings most from gals I've only seen once or a few times.

It shouldn't take more than that to assure her that you are a person worthy of being White Listed which means that you are basically an honoable and worthy client.

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oldguy6661580 reads

.........and she said she's not a TER VIP so couldn't give one.  

Is this true?  She has more than 30 reviews--all positive.  A person like that can't get into TER to whitelist someone?

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rightonppl1583 reads

links her TER handle to her provider profile. It's limited to allowing her to read only her own reviews in full. Until she has gone through the process of being granted that, she can't whitelist anyone, no matter how many reviews she has.

After I saw one of my first providers who I thought was active on TER, I asked her if she would whitelist me. She told me she doesn't do that, because she doesn't use it for screening, but she could do better and vouch for me on Date-Check. That was my introduction to verification sites. I've never paid any attention to whitelisting since then.

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ColetteMoreau823 reads

To me, its the indication that I'm willing to be a reference for them.

I give WhiteList referrals when:

1) I had a good time (i.e. the gent was clean and respectful)

and

2) When I'm asked

Everyone doesn't want them so I wait until I'm asked to provide them.

xox
Colette

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Carla_capri1314 reads

JUst ask the lady that u saw
some do it
some won't
is up to them
CC

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